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    Default Not getting blown out but also not getting attraction

    Hey, tonight was the first time I went out sarging and it seemed to go fairly well. I opened about four sets fairly easily and talked to all the girls for about five minutes plus. I did kind of get blown out of my first set, but it was apparently because saying that females are more 'in tune with their emotions than men' is sexist. Given that it didn't really make any sense to me I wasn't bummed out by it at all. The problem I ran into in the other three sets was that I didn't seem to be gaining any attraction. I tried to dhv with esp routines but the girls just were not wowed by it at all. I guess I just didn't think to try a different DHV routine.
    All in all I think I did pretty good though, I seemed to get accepted into the groups and, other than in the first set, I only ejected because I got tired of making small talk. Also I guess I got somewhat frustrated that I wasn't getting any IOIs. I think I may have been a little mono-toned and low energy, so tomorrow my goal will be to do the exact same thing just with more enthusiasm and different DHVs. I also want to try 'ejecting on a high note and giving them the gift of missing me'!
    If anyone has any good DHVs or advice I would be very grateful!
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    Default Re: Not getting blown out but also not getting attraction

    Great job on approaching multiple sets. That is one of the hardest steps in PUA. Kudos!

    How was your teasing? Any push/pull with your words or body language? Not sure if you asked them questions, but its interesting to be interested. People love to talk about themselves so as long as you don't fall into the interview trap this is a great technique. Also learn to have a two way convo and don't let her steal it. Also see if qualifying will help you out. "I like you, but you are too nice/bad for me. My mother warned me about girls like you."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Not getting blown out but also not getting attraction

    Thank you BatMan! You're right my teasing was pretty much nonexistent. My body language was a little figity in the first two sets, and in the third I was leaning on the bar so it was pretty good. In the fourth it was generally good but I ran out of things to do with my arms, so I crossed and uncrossed them a bit more than I should have. I'm definitely using that line tonight lol, it sounds priceless!

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    Default Re: Not getting blown out but also not getting attraction

    Hey if any one ever challenges you on something you say, don't back down, build it forward. It gives you a chance to create an emotional spike which works in your favor.

    You: Girls are more in tune with their emotions than guys.
    Fat chick cock block: That's sexist.
    You: See that's exactly the type of thing I'm talking about. Right now you are all but hurt because you can't control your emotions. That's how you women are. (Big Smile)


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