Re: Unplanned insta-date with ex
In my opinion, just freeze her out without telling her anything. Keep yourself busy and interesting and she'll be in the back of your mind genuinely. You are the prize - you don't need to TELL her that, make her FEEL that way. With a few days/weeks of no contact, she'll get curious and contact you again. By then, you'll have done so much, you have your options, and she'll feel like YOU'RE the prize that she will be chasing after. By then, she will just be another option for you. You may even find someone with the same qualities as her, if not even better.
Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~