Last night me and a few friends, a couple being attractive girls, went out to a local bar that is always packed on Sundays. I wasn't really going for pick up, rather just chill with my friends.
I wound up seeing this hot redhead, and I opened her by approaching her and simply saying "hey whats up" to which she responded positivly. I asked her what brought them out, to which it wound up being her friends b-day. I rolled off and danced with the girls I was with.
Next I came back over by her talked for a minute, and asked her if it was her real hair color, or she died it. She said it was real... to which I teased her some and she laughed/smiled, ioi's. Danced with her a bit.
Here's my sticking point... I ran out of things to say and caught myself going into the dreaded "interview". "So do you guys live around here... blah blah blah". I stopped, but then just kind of walked off.
She then went back to her friends at a table, hung around a bit, then apparently left. I didn't wind up going for the nubmber, and am kicking myself today for it!
There was a point tht I was literally thinking of just walking over by her and saying "Were leaving soon, but I'd like to talk with you again sometime, whats your number?" But the thing that prevented me was the fact that I really hadn't gotten into much of a convo with her so I thought it might be weird. But then in a flash her group left and they were gone.. On second thought today I should've just went for it, better to get a no, than not know.
Would you guys have suggested I just go for it, randomly asking for the number like stated above??? Any Number Close gambits that may have been useful here?
This is generally the area that I need to work on. I don't have a real problem approaching the girls, and alot of times they approach me, I just wind up either not keeping the conversation rolling very long, or don't attempt to go for the stupid number! Now let me note this dosn't happen during every interaction I have, but when it does happen it is really frustrating.
Thoughts and suggestions would be appreciated!