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    Default Second night testing out my skills!

    My second field report....Exciting stuff! ...This time I went to a Glow Light party where they give you glow in the dark paint and things get messy really quickly. This time I went out with my 2 buddies and 3 girls. Two of the girls are a little shy when it comes to clubbing so they kept with my 2 friends but the third girl, let's call her Jennie, is a total party animal and was a great pivot

    The thing about these glow light parties is that it's a great way to start Kino right away by asking the girls to paint me, it's a great opener! I find that it works wonders for me because I am pretty built and have a 6 pack

    So the first 3-set I open was painting all over me and my friends joined in and introduced everybody and we all danced a bit then I isolated my target. I squeezed her hand and she squeezed back and I was getting tons of IOIs so I knew I was in. When we sit down I get her to qualify herself to me.

    Me: what makes you stand out from the rest of these girls? You're pretty but beauty is common
    Her: Umm I don't know, I'm fun and interesting and I'm really spontaneous....bla bla bla
    Me: Are you nervous? You blink a lot
    Her: Really? I am?
    Me: Yeah tell you what...while I got your attention put your number in my phone so we can chat later
    Her: Ok sure
    Me: You know so far you've made the best impression on me, would you like to kiss me?
    Her: Maybe
    Me: I can do maybe
    K-Close & N-Close

    I repeated this twice more essentially the same way with a 2-set while Jennie was dancing with the Obstacle, and with a 4-set while my friends we're talking to them. With the girl from the 4-set I did the ESP 3s & 7s gambit...

    While sitting in a booth with my arm around her...

    Me: I gotta go find my friends in a bit so put your number in my phone and I'll text you and let you know which bar we're going to
    Her: Ok sure
    Me: Before I go I wanna show you this trick my friend who studies psychology showed me
    *ESP Gambit"
    Her: Cool how did you know I picked 3?
    Me: Magic...now how about we make this interesting, let's play for a kiss
    Her: hahahaha ok!
    *ESP Gambit again* ( I got the number wrong....she picked 3 again)
    Her: Looks like you don't get a kiss after all
    Me: Looks like you're wrong
    K-Close & N-Close

    What do you guys think? Any tips or suggestions that I can do to improve my game?

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    thats great, but you used the same lines on all of them,you did good to get their numbers/kisses, but next time you see them your going to have to do better than just a few one-time lines, plus you need to get them laughing!, next time you see them,they'll all be thinking thats that strange guy i kissed the first time i met him, you didn't build any comfort/report with them. other than that you did a great job. btw i love the mystery k-close, you got that strait from "the game" didn't you, i have used it with great success. the only downfall is that if you used it to many times you will get a reputation as a "player", be careful about overusing any one trick

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    thats great, but you used the same lines on all of them,you did good to get their numbers/kisses, but next time you see them your going to have to do better than just a few one-time lines, plus you need to get them laughing!, next time you see them,they'll all be thinking thats that strange guy i kissed the first time i met him, you didn't build any comfort/report with them. other than that you did a great job. btw i love the mystery k-close, you got that strait from "the game" didn't you, i have used it with great success. the only downfall is that if you used it to many times you will get a reputation as a "player", be careful about overusing any one trick
    I'm still learning how to write these FRs but I thought that I built enough comfort with them since they allowed me to Isolate their friend. With the first 3-set I was the life of the party, we were dancing together, taking pictures, and i got 2 of them to give me a kiss on the cheek while the 3rd one took a picture of it. Also when one of them put hand prints on my chest I did the same on her and she didn't mind so I pushed their boundaries a little and did the same thing on her two other friends :P I guess I should have mentioned that too haha

    But now that I think back, I did rush the whole thing when I was alone with the target...my A3/C1 only lasted about 5-10 mins before we rejoined the group, that's when I number/kiss closed her and then pushed her away in a playful manner. What can I do to build rapport with my target better next time. My problem is that the music is too loud and we can't really carry a conversation for long

    Also thanks for the tips, and you're right...the k-close gambit is straight from The Game. I'll try to come up with new ways so it doesn't get old

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    sounds like you had a pretty good night, though you were able to get far with them then, next time you see them you will have to take it down a notch so they don't get buyers remorse, also girls can act differently when in a group of friends than when they are by themselves. you should have built comfort with some dhv stories. also you should have learned some basic things about the girls, this not only builds comfort but gives you input for your next date. for instance she might say something about how she loves seafood, so you decide you should take her to a resturaunt that has her favorite shrimp. you get the idea, this also shows that you listened to what she said (double points), if you listen well enough the girl will tell you everything you need to know to seduce her. a good way to practice active listening is to watch tv with the volume way down or with the stereo on while you watch tv at normal volume. this will help you to tune out the music and hear what they are saying. if you ever have any questions feel free to pm me, i'm on here like every day

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    sounds like you had a pretty good night, though you were able to get far with them then, next time you see them you will have to take it down a notch so they don't get buyers remorse, also girls can act differently when in a group of friends than when they are by themselves. you should have built comfort with some dhv stories. also you should have learned some basic things about the girls, this not only builds comfort but gives you input for your next date. for instance she might say something about how she loves seafood, so you decide you should take her to a resturaunt that has her favorite shrimp. you get the idea, this also shows that you listened to what she said (double points), if you listen well enough the girl will tell you everything you need to know to seduce her. a good way to practice active listening is to watch tv with the volume way down or with the stereo on while you watch tv at normal volume. this will help you to tune out the music and hear what they are saying. if you ever have any questions feel free to pm me, i'm on here like every day
    Yeah you're absolutely right...I'm texting one of the girls and it's a bit difficult because I have no material to work her since I rushed the whole A3/C1 step....well you live and you learn haha. I invited her and her friends to a frat party this friday, and I haven't talked to her since last night. I'll msg her again either tomorrow or thursday and ask her if they're planning on coming. In the mean time should I keep texting her or wait for her to txt me first? So far it feels like I'm the one showing interest and she's barely asking me anything.

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    i think she has buyers remorse, you shouldn't text her till the night before the party,don't mention the party till you get a good vibe going between you and her, and then hint that you heard about this party and you might go there with some of your friends who got invited, she will either tell you she wants to come or she doesn't, if she doesn't want to come, forgette about her and get some other girls to come. if she flakes give her one second chance and then forgette about her

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    i think she has buyers remorse, you shouldn't text her till the night before the party,don't mention the party till you get a good vibe going between you and her, and then hint that you heard about this party and you might go there with some of your friends who got invited, she will either tell you she wants to come or she doesn't, if she doesn't want to come, forgette about her and get some other girls to come. if she flakes give her one second chance and then forgette about her
    What can I do to get her talking about herself...I don't want make our conversation into an interview but at the same time if I don't ask questions then I can't get to know her haha

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    yeah overall if this is your second night out I would say that is a good job. I think you can establish some more comfort by adding in like 2 more thought provoking questions and working some conversation off those.

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    yeah overall if this is your second night out I would say that is a good job. I think you can establish some more comfort by adding in like 2 more thought provoking questions and working some conversation off those.
    Thank you! I'd like to get better at getting them talking and building comfort

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    Default Re: Second night testing out my skills!

    IMO it sounds like a great night but i can see that where you're stuck is the conversation afterwards...it seems like u got the seduction part down but the rapport building will definitely help u out in getting to know her better. I can see the problem with my game is that i build too much rapport and fail to escalate the seduction
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