So a few days ago my ex texted me and told me she missed me. After some texts she asked me to have dinner tonight and I agreed. I went over and it was well...bittersweet. We were very happy to see eachother because we have a deep emotional connection with eachother. But at the same time it was sort of akward because we hadn't seen eachother in over 3 weeks. I knew she dated a guy sometime in those 3 weeks (didn't work out) but I chose not to adress it so I would not appear AFC. She also knows I've been seeing a few girls here and there but nothing too serious and she didnt bring that up either. So I have to say while we were both happy to see eachother, we were both at a loss to make a real connection because of what's happened in between us seeing eachother. She did give me some ioi's: Put her legs over my lap, didn't want to let me go while we were hugging, and few other indicators like that. At the end of the night I told her I had to leave (part of a Push-Pull I was doing) and she seemed a little bummed I was leaving (emphasize little). As we were hugging good bye she said "good luck with your new job" and "it was so great to see you."
I left without replying to any of those statements because
A) I didn't know how to react to her seemingly telling me goodbye for a long time
B) I didn't know if she wanted me to stay longer
C) I thought it would be more mysterious if I left without saying anything.
All in all it was a mixed bag of emotions. None of which I can decipher on my own because I'm emotionally involved with her. So it would be great if anyone could give me some feedback on this because my mind is too clouded with feelings to make sense of it.