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    Default Can't Isolate

    Background: My first post in the community so be gentle..

    Monday night (labor day) I was at a friend's appartment pool and with a group of four, only one girl. There was a decent crowd on hand however as it was a holiday. After noticing some talent present in some of the other groups I decided "F it, time to get my feet wet (pun intended). So as these two girls (HB8.5-9 ish? Is the scale pretty much subjective?) wandered by attached to a pool float, I posed them this riddle I'd given my friends earlier.

    Me: Excuse me! My friends are stuck on this riddle and need a little help.
    Girls: Look at each other and do the giggle-smile-apprehensive face thing...
    Me: (taking this as permission) If you want it you don't need it, if you need it you don't want it, if you have it you don't know it. What is it?
    Girls: Whaaat?! Say it again!

    At this point I realized they were foreign (Brazilian) and so the words themselves presented a challenge. It worked like a charm though and they were hooked. I tried to keep the conversation fun making fun of their accents while asking to for quick Portugese lessons, splashing off hand, etc... while they were working on it. The riddle was a convenient hook to keep them excited/interested at any point when things lagged. Finally they got really insisted and demanded an answer. I know, I know, I shouldn't have given it away (the answer is Coffin) but I did because I didn't want to make things awkward. I lost them a few seconds later to their group. Took a break until my friends left then joined their group in the hot tub. Made good talk, scored a number from one of the Brazilians, made new friends, still texting the Brazilian, signs point to yes, all good.

    Here are my questions though:
    1. Coffin is sort of a morbid riddle subject. Does anyone have any that are still whitty in the delivering but slightly more upbeat?

    2. The situation I ran into the hot tub once I had attracted my target, established some casual kino and comfort and all that was that I couldn't Isolate. Her group were the only ones left in the pool area and it wasn't my complex so I didn't really have anywhere to go. I feel like I could've got further if I would've had a good excuse to isolate. Does anyone have anygame that relates to this sort of situation?

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    Default Re: Can't Isolate

    by the sounds of it you needed a wing to keep the other girl occupied. Once I was in a similar situation, i left to "goto the bathroom, and just grabbed a regular guy at the party and introduced her to the friend, then turned to the target and said come here i want to show you something ... and then go from there.

    as far as riddles go? I have not really field tested them, i find there is many other things that work well. But they are most likely going to laugh when they find out the answer so i do not think it is bringing the mood down.

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    Default Re: Can't Isolate

    I've been thinking that lately... While there weren't any wings to grab in the moment, I am starting to think having partner in crime would enhance my learning curve. Anyone in Houston area who reads this want the job?

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    Default Re: Can't Isolate

    there is different games for a wing or solo.

    sometimes a poor wing can bring you down a lot. Keep trying the solo game. I find it easier not relying on someone else. Goto the bar with some friends so if you need to introduce a buddy you have that option.

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    Hey whats up, I'm in Houston, you should head out with me some time. PM me.

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    Default Re: Can't Isolate

    You dont need a wing you just need to entertain the set which requires work/energy. I use to be like you when I first joined Puaforum, I thought I needed a wing, not anymore. A wing can make or break you, trust me on that. What you should have done was build rapport/comfort more with the set and pull the target away from the set when you still on a high value with her set. They would be okay with you since they trust you and like you.
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    Default Re: Can't Isolate

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    You dont need a wing you just need to entertain the set which requires work/energy. I use to be like you when I first joined Puaforum, I thought I needed a wing, not anymore. A wing can make or break you, trust me on that. What you should have done was build rapport/comfort more with the set and pull the target away from the set when you still on a high value with her set. They would be okay with you since they trust you and like you.
    Yeah the easiest way to Isolate is to bring her to a more attractive location "out for a cigarette" "to the bar for a drink" "out for some fresh air" and there's not much more attractive than a hot tub, so YOU have to build attraction so that Isolation with YOU becomes more attractive... wherever that may be.

    As for riddles, google "what color was the bear riddle" also "who is the doctor" "one night a king and queen" "what color were the bus drivers eyes" these are the main ones I've used, but you can always find decent quick ones online.
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