I had some pretty straight forward gaming with this HB8 Asian chick over the past few days. Kept the frame disinterested and unaffected throughout.
*Scroll down to the parts that you might most like to read. M3 Model.
D1 - Tuesday
A1 - she's on her phone, alone at the table next to me in the food court. I was looking forward to eating alone, but decided to open. I was peacocking with simple leather wristlets and neck adornment.
Me: "I'm doing the same thing. You pull out your phone if nobody was around to get food with you - open your facebook and remind yourself you have friends. Are you new here?"
HB: "You mean like a freshmen? lol no, I'm a senior. And I'm waiting for my friend."
Me: "I'm new here, let me join you" *moves to her table*
Me: ROUTINE: "I'm eating less fish because my sister is a vegetarian..."
HB: *IOI* Where are you from
Me: ROUTINE: "Intro to my home town"
Her friend arrives, a poor AFC who is balls deep in the friendzone, then a gay friend arrives. I focus on them whenever HB looks away. During fluff I run a few more about how I study psychology, used to dance ballet, used to teach music, how she has a photo shoot in the morning...
Me: "You're a model?"
Me: "Oh... too bad, you seemed alright. Most models are just nasty, b1tchy, mean girls. *IOD look away*
HB: "I only do it part time"
After a bit more fluff, she excitedly proclaims that I should be her workout buddy later today - because I used to dance. I tell her I can show her a few stretches (Kino anyone?!) to help her burn calories and lose a few pounds before her shoot (she mentioned that goal).
We walk for a bit away from the table, talking about aspects of our life. I notice her trying to demonstrate her own value - qualifying. I let her earn respect, but I withhold enthusiasm.
C2 - the Gym
We get to the gym and she spends some time finding two cardio machines near eachother. We talk about family, school, work, home, situational comments - always DHVing, occasional Negging (she seems strangely unfased) and always holding a frame of screening her.
HB: "I'm gonna want to shower after this."
Me: "Hm. Probably a good idea" (*Neg)
HB: "Is your dorm near her? Can I shower at your dorm?"
Me: "Sure. We'll have to leave a bit early though because I have a thing to go to."
HB: "When were you born?"
Me: "July 9"
Me: "What about you?"
Me: *guess* "So you are a Taurus?"
HB: "Yes. And you're the crab?"
HB: "I think those two are compatible, like water and earth signs."
Me: "Yes, an ebb and flow, erosion and deposition (*NLP*) the surf and turf of the stars."
*fluff, DHV, bounce to my dorm to shower
HB: *Reaches across me wearing only a towel*
Me: *Ignores her as she puts her clothes on
HB: *Lays down on my couch to nap
Me: "Shakes her awake because I have to go
We go to the gym again - dialogue becomes more emotion-oriented about how she is stressed trying to keep all of her responsibilities (this means her front and frames are beginning to un-shield).
Back to my dorm to both shower after the gym.
HB: *Lays down in my bed*
Me: *Checks computer across the room* (push)
HB: "Is this bed even long enough for you?"
Me: "Yeah, see" *Lays down next to her* (pull)
Me: *Jumps up to go to dinner*
...we go to dinner, then back to my dorm for a nap.
She lays down on the couch, but then moves to my bed, complains that she fears falling off the edge. I offer to lay down at the edge, facing away "...to keep it G-Rated". She asks me what is PG, PG13, R? I only describe "PG13" and "R", then take it up to "PG" (spooning). Then we do what comes naturally when two college kids are spooning in a dorm
She says that she hasn't gotten laid in a long time, then takes off her top.
After I finish her with an "Australian kiss" she is begging me to fark her. But WHILE we're doing it the ASD and LMR kick in.
HB: "I feel like such a slut... don't tell anyone about this" (ASD)
HB: "Fark. We shouldn't be doing this..." *gets on top (LMR)
HB: "...this feels wrong" (Buyers Remorse)
She rolls off of me and we nap for a few mins. I try my "Brovlovsky gambit" - a big, meaningful speech right at the end that changes people's minds based on emotional appeal to what they want to believe in (whether or not there is any evidence) Inspired by every South Park episode when Kyle gives a speech at the end.
Me: "I don't want to be a mistake. I don't want you to walk away from this feeling bad and lumping me in with every other guy you've slept with and branded as "a mistake". I want to be the nice guy that you're attracted to who breaks your habit of dating douchebags. We decided to wait and not rush things - that was the right decision. In a sleep deprived and emotionally escalated state, we made a bad descision. But that doesn't mean that THIS is a mistake. I hope we still have a date for lunch tomorrow."
HB: "Lol, awww, we do. But I'm a very private person so tonight never happened.
Me: "What never happened?"