I decided that maybe this is the best place to start writing about what’s going to become a 6 month experiment. I’m fairly new to actually trying game techniques…and I’m sure I’ve made quite a few mistakes already. I’m new to the area…so it’s difficult for me to know any of the good places around town…but shouldn’t be too hard since I live in a college town. Anyways…
Girl #1: Sports bar Waitress
I know I know…a noob going for the home run. I figure either go all the way or don’t try at all right? So, anyways, week 1 I’m in the area…I manage to find a sports bar that has tons of beer. As in a great selection. Now I’m a pretty big beer aficionado, so I’m thinking…AWESOME. Not to mention…the girls working there are cute. Now at this point…I do the quick scan around the room…see if I can see anyone I might want to “target”….for lack of a better word. I see a few….smile at them, and say “Hey, how’s it going” and just keep walking to the bar, acting like I’m a busy guy. Now…with the advice I’ve seen…and from my own experiences…you always want to get to know the bartender. Who…happens to be the bartender. We start talking…and I quickly find out she’s leaving and this is her last night (bummer…she was girl next door cute). So I start asking her about the place…trying to see which waitresses have BF’s…etc. etc. So, now, fast forward to a few days later. I’ve been talking with a lot of the staff…and have become a “regular”. I don’t know if this is a good thing, but a lot of the guys(bartenders/cooks) acknowledge me as I’m walking in. I’m hoping this is a good thing…as to me…it seems kind of alpha male….maybe not, but I would hope being acknowledged before I acknowledge them would be a good thing.
Week 2 I really start talking with the ladies that work there. A lot of the staff drinks there after they get off…so I figured it was a good time to talk with the few I’ve got my eye on. I talk to them a little bit…but I think I might have messed it up cause I talked with A LOT of the chicks there…so I was just all over the place. Something I think I need to work on….concentrate on just one or 2 chicks instead of going around to 10-15. Anyways…
This week I got to talking to some mid 30’s housewife types. They happen to know the girl I’ve been trying to talk to….but I’ve been too chicken sh1t to do so. They tell me they’ll put in a good word for me…but I kinda cringed at that cause I wasn’t controlling the situation. So, last night…I started reading some stuff on this site…about closing…cause my end game really…really sucks. I can never get the girls number…or get her to come home with me. So I basically got her number by asking her to lunch…(which in hindsight seems dumb…but…she works the dinner shift a lot…so I was trying to figure out some way I could get her to come out without having an excuse). I just stopped her as she was walking by…(we had talked before, so it wasn’t just a random person asking her)….and then after asking…she said sure…and then gave me her number. I didn’t get to talk to her after that…so don’t know if she just wanted to get home to go to bed…(it was midnight by this point)….or if she was just being nice by saying sure. So, today, I text her…saying hey what’s up…it’s the dude from last night. Which…after reading some of the texting guides…I followed their advice and smacked myself upside the head. Just like those guides said…she hasn’t texted me back….so no idea what I’m gonna do at this point. She could be working…but I’m sure she’s had time to read text messages. We’ll see tonight…as I’m going to the bar again to hang out with some of the “off duty” bartenders.
So, my questions are as follows...and please feel free to be critique everything:
1: Is it a good thing I go there often?
2: How about the thing with getting to know the guys that work there? I figured if nothing else...they might invite me out to parties...etc.
3: Anything I should have done as far as this one chick goes?
4: Anything I can do to get her to come to me when I'm there?
5: I sit at a place at the bar where it's close to her registar....is this a good thing? or should I sit farther away?