So, I went on a "blind", double-date with my best friend, his girlfriend, and his girlfriend's best friend (that was the girl I "went out with" tonight).
I'm still a young guy, I'm actually 17 (if you ban me, that is stupid, because I'm not asking for nor talking about any sexual topics here - simply here for tips on talking to women and getting them to like me), and this was my first real date ever. I'm not a fat, ugly, gross m-effer, I just have never tried to get a girl very hard until now.
It went fairly well, I think. I had two very good negs perfectly planned out, but I couldn't bring myself to say them... She was wearing TOMs, and those things are everywhere nowadays. I could have said, "I love your TOMs! They seem to be everywhere these days!"
I just couldn't neg her. I don't know why! It seems like I'm much more comfortable negging random women that I want to manipulate, like at the mall or something.
Conversation went fine, I made her laugh, I was able to make her break eye-contact first, and luckily, I didn't say anything awkward, and I felt like I played it pretty smoothly.
The only thing that I felt went very badly was this: getting her number. I simply said, "Hey, could I have your number and I'll text you sometime?" Then, we got interrupted by my friend, and I had to ask... again. I have a feeling she was playing "hard to get" slightly, and I'm pretty sure I'm right.
I wish I would have bet her on the 5 Questions Game, you know, the one where you say "Hey, I'm going to ask you 5 questions and if you can answer each one intentionally false, you get anything you want. If I can make you answer correctly, I get your number."
I'm sure you all know of that technique, but usually you guys bet for drinks (ahem, I'm not 21, so...). Anyways, I don't know. I did get her number, but I felt really insecure when asking for it. I wish I could have led her into giving hers to me!
What do you guys think? Should I neg a bit and try some of these "games" and tricks with her?