So the night started with me going out with a few friends to a campus bar, im not going out to meet women at all, just have fun. I had been drinking a little but am deffinently not drunk. And i am sad to say this is the first time i have ever doubted anything i have learned about pick up. It started when a HB8.5 aproaches my group of 4 guys with her friend HB6 for whatever reason so i just naturally took the lead and isolated th HB8.5. She was being a little rude and said she didnt want to touch my hand but i eventually got her to shake my hand, give me a hug, and half her drink with ease. Once i thought A1 was done i moved on to A2 i threw out a few negs that threw her so off her game her jaw dropped as if no other guy had even spoken to her this way before but of course followed with a big stupid smile. I then thought well im busy with my boys i should Number Close and leave,(i forgot to say i was body rocking when i felt appropriate) but i guess i turned for one to many seconds and she left. I was a little shooked but didnt show it. Later on inside the bar i was chillin with an older pua (25 or so, im only 19). He said to me n my friend "go get some girls whatre you doing" so i went back to the HB8.5 to try and impress him (i dont usually do things to impress people but i was feeling lazy and didnt want to pick up in the first place.) I then said some smooth stuff, i dunno what exactly, then felt it was time to number close. So i asked her for her number, she said "find me later and i will" i followed with "really? my phones already out" she said "yea if i find you later" i said "you could just say no if you dont want to keep in touch" she said "okay. wanna know the truth? i dont want to talk to you" i said "okay thats cool i respect that youd say that."very calmly. she then replied "kidding! find me later!" so i said "okay cool ill catch you later i have to get back to my friend" and left. I went back to my friends on in the smoking section and the HB8.5 came out after with some guy i thought was just a tool to make me jealous or something? (i don't get jealous, its a womens trait). She stayed about five feet away always, and i remained cool having a legitimate good time. So then i threw a glow stick at her to get her attention (im at a campus bar with mostly 19yr olds, i can be a little immature..lol) she turned and said something, i didnt pay attention and continued my convo with my buddy (possibly my mistake by not saying something back? i didnt want to seem needy). She walked away, i thought nothing of it, it was a night out with the boys. But then my massive AFC buddy drags me to the dance floor and we hover around untill i notice the HB8.5 hooking up with that guy from earlier..i walk back to the smoking section to my other bud and hes telling me how the HB8.5 was saying how "i was so hot and she was so interested" "but i just said the wrong things to get her" my buddy saying this could have been over exaggerated a little but definitely not lying.. what does she mean saying the wrong thing?? i said everything perfectly by the book right? this never usually happens. i always at least number close even if they flake! But this girl showed interest first, not me. By what she was saying to my buddy the complete AFC me before leaning anything (i still dont claim to fully be a pua) would have not only number closed and k-closed but most likelyy f-closed this girl! and fucking her right now..not eating my chicken fingers with tai sause.. im a little drunk very frustrated and let down but this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
btw ill rewrite this in the morning if my drunkenness doesnt make sense