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Thread: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

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    Default did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    Last night i went to the august burns red concert here in my town. Went with a group of guys, 2 whom i didnt know, as well as 2 girls that were friends of theirs i didnt know.

    To make a long story short, i was (i thought) being really talkative with the guys, feeling fairly alpha in the group, but the girls were kind of chatting between themselves and not engaging with any of the rest of us.

    I opened them up just asking "so who do you guys like in the band line up?" To which they were both kind of snottily "all of the bands..." i proceeded on to say "oh nice. I dont really know any girls in my group of friends that like this kind of music, thats cool" and the blonde one responds "well you should really work on that then". I was kind of caught off guard and said "ohhhh ok, so thats how its going to be... miss i dont even remeber your name" (smiling) and she goes into the "wow you dont remember my name.." snotty... so i just turned to the guys to talk.

    Now i know this wasnt my finest conversation, and might have thrown a dlv in

    there by accident, but i was surprised at how these girls acted and came off as so unfriendly from the start.

    Now later on the brunette engaged into a convo with me again, hooking onto something she heard me say regarding where i live (she likes that side of town) but i wasnt able to escalate it any further with either of them. I felt like there might have been some sexual Tension at times when i was standing clse to them during shows, but idk. I kind of gave up.

    Think i could have handled this differently, or were these girls just being unreceptive & bitches?

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    Default Re: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rando9009 View Post
    I opened them up just asking "so who do you guys like in the band line up?" To which they were both kind of snottily "all of the bands..." i proceeded on to say "oh nice. I dont really know any girls in my group of friends that like this kind of music, thats cool" and the blonde one responds "well you should really work on that then". I was kind of caught off guard and said "ohhhh ok, so thats how its going to be... miss i dont even remeber your name" (smiling) and she goes into the "wow you dont remember my name.." snotty... so i just turned to the guys to talk.


    Think i could have handled this differently, or were these girls just being unreceptive & bitches?
    Well, kinda yes to both. You could have handled it differently because they are unreceptive b1tches.

    It sounds like these girls are either (a) HB8/9 or (b) they are HB5/6 who think they're HB8/9.

    With this inflated perception of themselves (be it accurate or not) you showed a bit too much interest in building rapport, first asking about their preferences then including "nice" and "that's cool" in assesment of their non-content-having response.

    With girls who are (or think they are) HB8/9 it's best to open with an IOD/dhv combo or a Neg - HB8/9s love negs. Your convo starter was good for general chit-chat with a friend of friend, but for a girl who thinks she's hot there was too much rapport-building and not enough cockiness/dominance.

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    Default Re: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    Well they were both prolly 7-9s, brunette hotter than the blonde. I was just kind of into them cuz they both have that "metal girl" look that i find sexy as hell.

    Ya i hear ya, to chit chatty right from the start like a friend. But i dont get how i could've negged either of them right off the bat without first starting some sort of a conversation...?

    Got any examples for this situation?

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    Default Re: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    "So you guys are metal girls? I guess that means you don't shower. Do me a favor, stay downwind stinky lady. "

    "So you like metal? THere's a guy right over there with like five piercings in his bottom lip - he's probably just your type - I'll introduce you!" *steps away to get the guy*

    "Hi, nice to meet - whoa! your left eye is really pretty!"

    "Hi, nice to meet - you have spinach or something in your teeth... I HOPE it's spinach... not swampthing." Roll Off, call her "swamp thing" whenever you need to neg.

    or go with the canned classics ignore her until she talks, then:

    "Oh... you're one of THOSE girls."

    "Is she always like this?"

    "Whoa! Look who wore their b1tch pants today! " (I've used this one, high risk / high reward - has to be cocky/funny)
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    Default Re: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    "So you guys are metal girls? I guess that means you don't shower. Do me a favor, stay downwind stinky lady. "

    "So you like metal? THere's a guy right over there with like five piercings in his bottom lip - he's probably just your type - I'll introduce you!" *steps away to get the guy*

    "Hi, nice to meet - whoa! your left eye is really pretty!"

    "Hi, nice to meet - you have spinach or something in your teeth... I HOPE it's spinach... not swampthing." Roll Off, call her "swamp thing" whenever you need to neg.

    or go with the canned classics ignore her until she talks, then:

    "Oh... you're one of THOSE girls."

    "Is she always like this?"

    "Whoa! Look who wore their b1tch pants today! " (I've used this one, high risk / high reward - has to be cocky/funny)
    Good stuff. I'd personally stay away from the "metal girls" jokes though... I don't think this would go over very well considering were in a venue FULL of this type of style, including myself! haha. Plus there not smelly etc, just kind of the emo look... super sexy! But I know what you're saying...

    I honestly have the problem (mostly when I'm totally sober) of my neg's not usually going over very well, and the girl actually seeming kind of offended. Idk half of the time if this is a Sh1t test, or if its something with my delivery/body language.

    Really though.. all to many times I'll throw out a playful neg (smiling) and the girl will act kind of defensive.

    For instance, last night I said to some girls who were again being antisocial with the rest of the group, "hey, you know you guys don't need to be so shy over there! (smiling, trying to be playful), and they turned and were like "were not" with kind of a snarl look and went back to what they were doing.

    What the hell? lol

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    Default Re: did i screw something up, or just bitches?

    Try this:

    It's kinda mean, but it's how I got the hang of negs. See two hot chicks at a party, or at the coffee shop, or bookstore... wherever. Then say to yourself, "I'd like to get their numbers, but I won't because I'm going to OVER neg them."

    Then Approach, do nothing but Neg and blow yourself out via negs.

    Might just be me, but that's how I got over the NA (negging Anxiety).
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