Ok so I need to quickly knock this report out before sleep overtakes me as I'm losing my buzz.
So tonight I went to a concert on whim which is totally out of my comfort zone (I'm a serious introvert). It was held at a local club which holds a few people. Also not big at all. Only holds a few hundred at best.
Right off the bat a rock concert isnt the best place to meet women and progress my game. The upside is being in a social setting and actually doing something different which involved a lot of people I didn't know. I did end up running into a few people I didn't know which allowed me bit of a comfort zone to fall back into but this was not planned a kind of cheating to my plan.
While waiting to get in I did strike up conversation with a few guys in line. Talking about cars and other bs made for passing time quicker while waiting to get in plus getting me ready to socialize once I got in. Once in I saw a guy I was acquainted with and started talking to him and his gf to keep my sociability up up. The show started and was pretty good.
There were two girls right in front of me (HB5 and HB6) but I had no approach to them as the music was insanely load. I didn't know how to approach in such an uncomfortable speaking situation. Even yelling was tough to do. I missed the chance in between sets as they disappeared in the crowds.
I managed a single approach set though. I ran into someone I knew from work who introduced me to her bf and another firend. We all chat and have a good time and I see a HB7 standing on her own to the side, very guarded (arms crossed, not much emotion being shown, with a cup of wine) I had spotted her earlier but wanted to wait and see what and if other guys approach and do. I see nothing go her way. At all. I also noticed her looking at me earlier a few times and the dude I met I was talking with corroborated that she eyed us already .So I work up the courage and made my approach while the next band was setting up so that conversation was possible.
I moved in next to her, gave it a few seconds then turned to face her and said: "Your obviously having the most fun out of anyone here here." I smiled.
She half smiled back and pointed to the stage. No live music, just extras setting stuff up so I understood what she meant.
Me: This is actually better than the band that was just on. They were ok.
Her: its alright (or something nonchalant like that)
Me: Did you see the opening band? They killed it. They did a cover of linkin park and I swear it was like I was listening to linken park themselves on stage.
Her: I didn't see them
Me: Did you come late?
Me: You definately missed out
Mind you this conversation felt very struggled as she kept very guarded and she never turned to face me except by turning her head. She felt very bland and stuck up but I knew that couldnt be how she is as later when the headliner took the stage she was onstage with the other women when the frontman asked for women to be on stage. She danced sleek and fine as hell but still seemed guarded. Sexy dancing but nothin slutty.
It was my only set bt a huge step for me because I NEVER approach like that not to mention I was in a big time social setting on my own. This the first step for a fresh newbie. I just wish I would have given the two girls in front of me a go.