This is my first time going out and giving a focused effort to approach women in bars by the way. So I walk in with my buddy (not a bad looking dude, but is very cocky by nature)get a rum and coke. And begin to survey the playing field. Its a bar very close to my place, and tonights def an older crowd, 30+. I just act natural, ordering my drink sorta dancing a lil to the famillar songs I know, standing, bantering with my buddy for 15mins untill I spot a table by the dance floor. I motion to my wing to follow. I took a quick glace around the room, and by the looks of things its all mixed sets. I pause to take in all in...when all a sudden a big rush of people come in from the outside live band area.
In this herd of people I spot a 3 set,HB 6,7,8 that decide conveniently to settle within ear shot of me and my wing. BINGO. In my head I decide to go with a improv situational opener, then quickly try some canned matieralal to keep there interest afloat.
BAM...random pool player guy "accidentlly" hits the HB 8 with a pool stick A couple appologys ensue with the 3 set teasing the guy on hitting her was his failed attempt at "pickup" and before I even get to approach the group, HB 6 opens me first.
HB 6: "You guys look board"
ME "Iam board! I wanna dance but they keep spinnin slow
jams. Im waiting for my song to play. I threw the dj
HB 6: "Really? Whats your song?
We banter. This girl isn't the mother hen, and its obvious shes interested, and I have her attention for awhile. Meanwhile, at the table next to ours
a group of 3 AFC guys are depserately trying to split the 7 and 8 girls from us, saying random stuff to them, trying to get them to sit with them, yet failed I guess we where more interesting
I introduce myself to the 6,7,and 8 compliment the 8 on her intricate braids,then immediately neg her on how it took her 3 hours just to make a bar appearance LOL. I engage the mother hen, the HB 7 and continue bantering mostly light neg/teasing the HB 7, in order to get the 8. The 7 seems very talkative and comfortable now the Bitch Shield has been disabled. For awhile I was able to entertain the 3 set almost single handedly (little help from my wing)
My song finally comes on and I smile and instinctively get up...(kinda left them all hanging) opps...and make my way to the dance floor. I hear one of the girls say "OOOHH yay I wanna dance to this song!" and follow suit.
My plan was not to close. (WWWWhat?) Yes, I was there to combat my aa mostly, and to gain comfort on the dance floor (I think Id like to focus on dancing as part of my game)in this setting for future outings, more so then worrying about closing (humble begings.)I start "shuffling" and I hear random women compliment my solo dancing. I stop turn around and see the 3 set dancing so I just walk up and start dancing with the entire group now focusing on the 8.
This is where it gets interesting. Outta nowhere this completely random HB 7 blonde strolls over to me on the dance floor and interrupts (took me completely off guard.) "Hey...you have a thing for her (HB 8) don't you? I'm blind sided...I reply "Maybe I do..." She then proceeds to intercept and dance with the HB 8! My natural reaction was to dance with both of them...(not going down without a fight)so I attempted, only to hear the blonde say "I'm trying to HELP YOU, here." I took that as offensive, I didn't appreciate her drunkin training wheels, so I said "What are you doing? I don't NEED your HELP." Sarcastic smiled, patted her on the back, and set her on her way. Eyes wide and probably offended she walks away.
That shook my mood. I follow the set after the song ends to the table and they want to leave for the strip club. I tease the HB 8 about her secretly liking women, as all women have hidden lesbian tendincies after shots of tequlia, LOL. I let them just leave...(NOT SMART I Know) I really could have easily number closed the mother hen, which I actually hit it off with more then the HB 8. Aww well, I didnt do much, but this REALLY helped with the AA. But I'm looking for constructive criticism on anything you guys noticed.