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Thread: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Hey bud...

    You did good. What I'm saying is did you get the girls number? ... If you did then good. If you didn't and ur worked up enough to post on a forum about a girl you just met, then YES you should of talked to her every time you accidentally saw her!! .. You see what I'm getting at??

    Direct Game , Indirect Game, doesnt even matter !! Just do what feels right and if you have the I don't give a fuck attitude you'll be fine!!!

    I get in the "I really like her attitude" but that's only after 4 or 5 hangouts and when I dont have any other girls on the side...

    Cheers be well!!

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Inter is right, don't get caught up in the direct/indirect. Just pick a game plan and stick to it.

    So lets see.. First things first

    When a girl in a sarge mentions up the boyfriend its used as a tactic to get a little distance from you and make herself more comfortable, it means exactly that you're being too direct and need to back off a bit, it doesn't mean she wants you to go away, if the conversation was totally unpleasant she would of excused herself "to the bathroom" or to "meet some friends".

    If you hear the BF talk again, think a sec and calibrate. Are you being too upfront? Excuse yourself and go talk to some other friends/girls and come back some minutes later. In this case it seems to me a bit obvious.

    Your friend used a somewhat direct opener, it wasn't too direct or strong but it showed interest, then as you BOTH came over and talked to her you were also both showing interest and tag teaming her by each side. Hence the boyfriend comment.

    What would've been better is if only one of you approached and the other went over to some other things, that way there's more comfort and room to game. That is also why its important to be organized with your buddies/wings. Lets say you both approached and then she threw the BF bomb, it would be better if both of you rolled off casually and then you approached later on, or maybe one of you rolled off and the other negged and kept at it.

    As for the question on seeing her other times, maybe it was a coincidence, maybe not. You said she was alone, there's a good chance she wanted to hang out more with you guys. When you saw her, was she around for no good reason? If so, then theres a big chance she wanted to talk again.

    Either way it would've been good if you approached her again and talked about other stuff and go for the Number Close.

    Just one last thing, on your proposed number close scenario cut out off the umms and the boyfriend talk, i suggest something like this "hey you're cool to talk to, we should hang out again, give me your number" simple.

    Just last night i ran into the same BF thing, i plowed on like it was nothing and i number closed piss easy. You can read about it in my field report.

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    i have to agree with jtores, two guys gaming one girl at the same time is a recipe for disaster, it forces her to constantly judge your social value against each other until she determines the "dominant" male, while in the meantime the two of you are amogging each other,each trying to be dominant. this usually works against you when you are gaming a woman, especially since he's a good friend who you don't want to really AMOG. when introducing yourself into a three set with two guys you have to quickly amog the other guy and blow him out of the set (you don't want to do this if he's a good friend)(no girl is worth losing a friendship) as for the bf thing if its true its a good sign that she is feeling attracted to you, you should just act cool, but kick your game back a notch (its probably making her uncomfortable) and try to build some extra comfort before n-closing. in addition you could have used xaviers bf-destroyer
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html
    better luck next time


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