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Thread: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

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    Default Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Guys,

    So last night at a Rise Against concert me and a buddy were walking around in the halls near the bar area. Spotted this cute girl leaning up against the wall eating a piece of pizza. My buddy shouted out to her "I see you've been standing there for awhile, that pizza must be pretty good!" to which she laughed, and we both walked over and just started a casual conversation with her for about 5-10 minutes. Turns out she actually just came by herself to the concert. Me and my buddy were both talking to her but it was clear that I had more in common, so I kind of took the lead with the conversation. I was thinking of going for a Number Close.

    Out of nowhere while were all talking this girl says "so I don't want to ruin your guys HOPES and DREAMS but I do have a boyfriend". We just kind of joked about it a bit (but nothing clever unfortunatly) and moved past that subject, still talked for a bit, then we left. Note: When she said this, she didn't seem defensive or anything. I was a little pissed though about the "hopes and dreams" thing... who does she think she is..?

    Later on I saw this girl in the crowd, somewhat near us, and I gave a friendly wave (at this point we were both standing with two other girls chatting that we know), she saw me, waved back, but then acted kind of startled or something and walked off. I was trying to pinpoint in my head if she was creeped by us, or just doing her own thing.

    I then moved by myself through the crowd up to the pit area for awhile, and wouldn't you know it, there she was again about 20 ft to my left. I DO NOT think that she was purposly following me around. I actually got a little uneasy, hoping that she wouldn't think I was following her around..

    Now question for everyone... do you think this was just coincidence I kept seeing her around by me? I was seriously thinking of going up to her again near the end to ask "so I just have to ask... do you really have a boyfriend... cuz I think your cool and would like to talk to you again sometime (number close attempt)" but I held off for fear of looking like a STALKER. Also.... How is it best handled when there are 2 guys talking to one girl? I feel like its a little overpowering for them getting double teamed . How could this overall interaction been handled different?

    Thoughts appreciated!

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Any advice guys on situations like this?

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Anyone? Lol. This was a situation im kind of confused about and want to learn from ! Especially if anyone has any tips on when 2 guys are talking to one girl.

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    I don't really have any answers for you, im kind of interested what someone better than me has to say about this. I think you probably did the right thing not talking to her again later on. Maybe your friend could have made an excuse to leave if you two subconsciously decided that you were taking the lead on this set. You didn't really specify what your answer to her saying she had a boyfriend. Maybe it came off AFC and that's why she looked awkward later. Because she is thinking "O, he likes me but I don't like him. Might hurt his feelings or something". Although like i said, im sure someone better than me will have some good advice .

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    I've experienced this heaps aswell, They say it happens in threes, But I think it has more to do with the Law of Attraction in a way, I would of atleast try dance with her, than Isolate again, then do the yes ladder to Number Close, If she was 10+ other wise i would of gone other girls.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    @Tyrone I'm pretty confused. HB10+ or like 10 years old plus? Both seem peculiar... :/

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    if she has a BF for me to attempt to Poach(conquer/steal) her she would have to be a HB10+ or i would go for another girl, Try dancing(sneaky Kino) with her and showing you'r fun, Make(alpha) her get a drink with you after the dance (Isolate). use "Yes ladder" to get number vs boyfriend.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    WHy are you so worried about a girl you just talked to for 5 minutes at a concert???? Dude, just use Direct Game! plow right through her and if she isn't interested MOVE ON!!

    I can only imagine how much you work yourself up if you actually get to know a girl!!!

    Just relax bro, who cares if she thinks your weird. You'll probably never see her again. So make your chances count.

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    WHy are you so worried about a girl you just talked to for 5 minutes at a concert???? Dude, just use Direct Game! plow right through her and if she isn't interested MOVE ON!!

    I can only imagine how much you work yourself up if you actually get to know a girl!!!

    Just relax bro, who cares if she thinks your weird. You'll probably never see her again. So make your chances count.
    I really wasnt getting worked up, just kept coming back to mind because i kept seeing her several times randomly after the initial conversation. Kind of a weird coincidence, in a crowd of thousands of people. BUT i will say that as far as my type of girl.... she was it!!! I was really attracted to her, maybe let that get in my head a little.

    And i felt like the first convo went fine, just didnt know how to handle the other instances. So when your saying "who cares if she thinks your weird" are you saying i should've went and talked to her again when spotting her? Thats what im asking.
    And i hear ya with the direct game. But is this really the place for direct game? This is more like a bar-nightclub setting. I feel like going around just walking up to girls saying " hey saw you standing over here, your cute, im randy" isnt going to go over as well in this setting as lets say, during daygame.

    Am i wrong?

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    Default Re: Concert pick up attempt, BOYFRIEND.. test?

    Girls with bf's in clubs by themselves are easy when you know what you're doing because girls get intoxicated and really confused if you build attraction then its just dealing with LMR & ASD
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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