Time distortion F-Close
Just last weekend I was able to close with considerably less effort at the end of the night after several let downs. I have a few good wings, who seem to disappear at the very moment I need them the most, but this particular night I was on my own because both was cuffed up prior to my arrival with a few ladies they met the previous weekend.
Every night I have a particular set of rules and goals I stick to which gives me a feeling of a competitive edge and higher confidence. I arrive at the bar and meet up with my buddies to say hi and get a feel of the vibe. I Have a few drinks and mingle without bouncing around looking like desperate lame. Much to my dismay I open a few and my luck only gets me a few minutes of small talk here and there, but no real connections. I decide to lay low for a little bit and let the smoke clear and a prospect from earlier in the night approaches me for a dance. I reluctantly disagree, why? Because I felt it would only be for validation as she blew me off earlier as if I was just another of the many chasing her, she didn't like it at all and promptly left the bar shortly after, Was this a bad move on my part?
Not long after one of my buddies pointed me towards an HB8 sitting behind him trying to converse, as his lady was due back soon from the bar getting them drinks, he kinda threw her in my lap. After introducing myself she comes to join me around on the dance floor. We do a little dancing and soon after the lights come on, we make our way to the exit and exchange small and numbers. We go our separate ways.
Furtherdown the street my buddy finds me and ask if I want to join them at an after hours spot, I tell him I'm calling it a night and headed back home, soon as I say this the HB8 from the bar reappears and ask if I want to join her for a drink at another bar as she's headed there to buy a friend a shot for his birthday. We head in, they take the shot and he leaves immediately as he was obviously wasted. She offers me a beer and we take refuge in a corner near the bar to talk a little. At this point I decide to try a technique I've been thinking about, I call it time distortion, it derived from an NLP embedded command technique that relates a feeling of a time in the past to the familiarity of something your doing in the present, but mine actually attempts to embed commands that triggers a sense of spontaneity suggesting time is a false sense of security and allowing the moment to past without taking advantage of it could cause them to miss out on a lot of fun, it's still under construction and I was just field testing it.
Well after this she very excited and wants to hear more, at this point my buddy texts me and asks me to come give company to the third party their girls had with them, the HB8 ask is that your friend? Where are they lets go meet with them. We head to the bar where they are and one buddies laid out asleep on the couch with his girl and the others at the bar entertaining. We sit have a beer and I begin the Kino portion of my technique, at this time shes really into it , but now begins to continuously mention how sleepy she is. After about twenty minutes of whining I offer up my bed which is a close cab ride away, she disagrees of course so I continue with the kino and persuasion. A few minutes later I make another offer, but now mention a hotel within walking distance and we can just talk more perhaps sleep. She agrees, and we head out. Soon as we arrive to the telly, we check in and soon as we get to the room she hops in the shower, soon as she's done I hop in and lay out on the bed next to her once I finish as if I only had intentions of sleep.
Seconds after I lay down she turns and starts to aggressively claw at me and as I turn to her she throws off her clothes and jumps on me, its history from there. This goes on for hours, we nap wake up, go at it again, nap, wake, go at it then eventually shower and leave together.
Haven t heard from her since, I was suppose to meet her at another bar the next night, neither went or confirmed my cancellation so I assume that's why.
What do you think of the night? Did my technique seem like I help things to progress? What could I have done differently if anything?
You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...
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