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Thread: rejected by HB9, but pumped

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    today i had the courage to approach an HB9 on campus, she was in proximity to me while i was walking,so i opened asking her about braces (she had them and i am getting them) had a short convo,(nothing to special or interesting about it) i tried to n-close when she had to go to her theater class,but she said she was too buisy to see me again (i got blown off) but i'm pumped because she's like the hottest girl i've ever made conversation with now that i think of it i didn't have a fun convo with her (probably why she blew me off) but i'm proud that i didn't allow my nerves to get the best of me i should have used a good cocky/funny type convo,but i was quickly lost in the moment i'm currently trying to make these approaches reflexive, but i still have some aa unfortunately. i failed to create attraction in her before i went for the n-close (dumb mistake i made because of how beautiful she was) however i succeeded at actually approaching a truly hot girl!! and next time i won't be so nervous

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    Default Re: rejected,but pumped

    That's exactly what it takes.

    Once you get blown off a couple times & realize nothing "horrible" happened because of it, it makes approaching a lot easier.

    Don't worry about the outcome... because you didn't know the girl beforehand; and after a short conversation you still really don't even know her. So, you're not losing anything.... but you're GAINING experience.



    That's how guys should look at it when they approach a girl.


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    Default Re: rejected by HB9, but pumped

    i deffinately agree with you that experience is the important part of my game that i'm missing, i have studied so much material on the topic, but i have only consciously been making cold approaches for about a month, i have no trouble talking to less attractive girls,but when it comes to HB 8,9,or10 i have trouble even keeping convorsation, let alone creating the attraction i need in order to close. i am deffinetly proggressing but i still have alot of feild work to do

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    Default Re: rejected by HB9, but pumped

    Why are you having trouble with more attractive girls? Sounds like a mental cop out.

    I wouldnt get too emotional over their looks, there are more important things to get yourself concerned and nerved up with further down the road as/if things progress with them. Thats how I always felt. the initial stages are fun and casual, perhaps even exhibition style, it accounts for experience but theres no real loss. Sort of like a pre-season football game....you can see where your game is at.

    And sometimes its hard to keep a convo with a girl you may have no common interests with. You cant force attraction, and you cannot fake interests for long either before things get dull. It may be just the way things are between you two and not a flaw in your gaming and ability.

    And not girls are all the same, she may have said no but maybe another would have said yes? Everyone has different tastes.

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    Default Re: rejected by HB9, but pumped

    i definately have to agree with you, djchill, i haven't always been a sociable guy and i've been working on being more sociable for about a year now, over the summer i studied pua extensively and now that i'm in college i'm working on implementing it. i am deffenatly not the greatist pua out their,but i'm getting alot better than i was say a year ago i am finally making aproaches and talking to girls this is a big step from my junior year in high school when i had like 6 people i talked to and that was it. now that i'm in college i'm adapting to my environment and getting the cold aproach down, i am deffenatly improving almost every day and i love talking to people, thanks to pua


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