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    Tempest is offline PUA in Training
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    Default University week2. Success and failure

    This is my third field report I believe. Week 1 wasn't the greatest but it was WAY better than where I was at before. I feel like i've learned so much already. I hadn't done much sarging before hand...

    First girl I approached in one of my huge lectures where there is like 200 people. This one didn't go so well, it's been my only big failure where I didn't get anywhere at all. I walked into the class and was looking for something cute to sit beside(im there anyways, why not work on my game during class). I ended up not seeing anyone right away without standing at the top awkwardly so I found an empty seat and 1 row behind me was a cute girl so I moved up and sat beside her. Maybe this is what blew the whole thing, not sure if she noticed me but if she did I might have dlv'd myself by changing seats. When I sat down I said "can I sit here?" and tried to sit down before she could answer but I might have looked like I waited since i had my bag and stuff (small chairs). Then I started a conversation, teasing her about being smart and saying she's cool with letting me cheat off her but she didn't smile once and basically ignored me. I asked for her number and she gave it so I introduced myself after and she wouldn't shake my hand. I was like, wtf? I said that was weird and just ignored her for the rest of class. Was this my fault or do you guys think she was just in an univested mood?

    Next story, total opposite. Hit this approach out of the park. I went to the food court during my break since theres usually tons of people sitting by themselves and saw a cute girl so I walked over and sat down. It was a long bench so I put my backpack at one end and sprawled out so I looked super alpha and chill. The table was all messed so I ended up bugging her about breaking it. I dhv'd kind of, i'm still pretty bad at this... then hugged her before i left since i had to run to class.

    Texts from last night:
    Me: Hey, it's Devon. You're the one who broke the table I think? Come chill with me tomorrow! 1:20 *building name*
    Her: Lol, hi, i told you i didn't break the table :P
    Me: We'll keep it between you and me
    Her: okay deal
    -20 minutes-
    Her:Oh i can't hang out tomorrow, do you have time thursday morning?
    Me:Maybe, you'll have to try harder though and wear something cute
    Her:lol are you telling me what to do already?
    Me:I've got to keep you in line some how.
    Her:You just met me, how do you know if i can be kept in line?
    Me: *stops responding and goes to sleep*

    My AFC friend doesn't think this line is good
    *Maybe, you'll have to try harder though and wear something cute*
    What do you guys think, fine? I thought it was good myself but he was super against it.

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    peel is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    meh its whatever. dont sweat the details. I would say your overall tone is coming off slightly tryhard (to be alpha) which implies beta

    what exact openers did u use for both?

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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    #1 "So you're cool with me cheating off of you?"
    #2 "Hey, you're cute, I had to come over and meet you"

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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    Dont try too hard, I agree, most guys make this mistake in the college environment and it forms a commonality for girls to compare you against the myriad of other guys that have hit on them or have tried. Ask yourself the question, how are you different from these guys, what are you offering or negotiating?

    Gotta throw in the quote I often like to keep in the back of my head: "I'm Gonna make em an offer. they cant refuse".

    Although your getting somewhere it seems. Keep it casual and fun like your not trying to "marry" them and hinting at the ordeal as "your together already" and your just in the beginning stages.

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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    Hmm alright, do you think you could give me an example of something you would change or certain things to avoid to make my conversations more relaxed. At the moment I don't really have too many dhv stories so my conversations are probably a little bit too imbalanced but this is just because I haven't been that social until uni. Slowly remembering stories as I keep talking to people. Anyways, examples please !

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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Keep it casual and fun like your not trying to "marry" them and hinting at the ordeal as "your together already" and your just in the beginning stages.
    I absolutely agree. One of the biggest mistakes guys make is trying too hard. If you are really flush with women, they are no longer a huge deal and you don't bother saying needless cocky lines. You need some balance in there. It's like seasoning in cooking - you don't want too much salt.

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    Default Re: University week2. Success and failure

    im in university too, and i dont think you should keep pushing something the girl doesnt want to talk about. move on. i feel you dlv yourself by continuing to push a conversation topic that she no longer wants to talk about


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