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Thread: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

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    Default Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    Where do I begin.....trying to flip out some game at work whilst under the guise of being professional and having to live up to what I call an "oath.

    There are various arguments pros/and cons about gaming and picking up at work but Im looking for any tips/advice plus am going to share my experiences more so like a journal of doing some pick up at work.

    I think the major tip is not letting it get out of hand and keeping it quiet and hush-hush. Ive already talked to girls who were hitting on me in front of the damn bosses/managers and I was just thinking to myself No damn way this would ever work out. And I often would think no such woman would act in such a way on the job as their ass would be on the line but being so as the "rules" and "sexual harassment" guidelines are its lightly labeled one way street and biased towards the opposite sex.

    Just one instance to gauge what im working against, one guy, and attempted wing-man(I bailed on him) got called in by the assistant manager and immediate supervisor in a private meeting cause he was stirring up crap with girls at work, and to make matters worse proof was witnessed in person and on facebook where they tore him up(he did not do good work on them). He got to the point of being bullied by some girls, which is hard to imagine being out of "school yard antics" but it still can happen if your a weak wimpy guy. Which brings me to my biggest advice is not to have bosses added on facebook or have any social networking sites that have proof you are flirting with your co-workers.

    So far im working on a couple targets and my strategy is to catch them away from the "main office area" and in a more 1 on 1 situation. This way having privacy, no witnesses, no bosses, and no blockage(cock blocks yes). My biggest enemy has been jealous cock blocks of both sexes coming in between me and my targets. I am extremely pressured to take an offensive when I have the chance otherwise I may not ever get another one, therefore having Approach Anxiety or any hold ups get thrown under the rug when it comes to the perfect moments.

    I have one solid wing that has assisted me, as well I am assisting him which is a major plus. We have opposite tastes in women so there will not be really any conflicts of claiming targets.

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    One of the tricky things about work is certainly the repercussions. If you meet some random girl in the street or at a bar it is great because if you fail with her no-one really knows and so you have nothing to loose. Having nothing to loose usually means you are more natural and confident in your game. So the first thing I would suggest is to imagine your co-workers being strangers and not worrying if it works out or not. Many people meet and fall in love at work and unless there is legal protocol entailed with not dating co-workers you can't let all the negative possibilities affect your game. You just have to go for it. You can utilize email too. Send a message 'hey I like your new hair today ' or whatever. Befriend the IT guy

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    Currently working on this exotic beauty but the matter of timing has been an issue although keeping it professional I think "we" have gotten an idea of whats going on....or that she knows I am attempting something or keeping a certain guise between us. Theres a certain aura that I feel around her and she has given some ioi's. I caught her by herself quite unexpectedly (crossed paths in the hallway) and had a quick talk with her as she was on her way somewhere and was late.....so it was a quick chit chat.

    Some guys are actually intimidated by her which I think is odd but i guess its because of her personality and how she holds herself. My wing even mentioned how she seems bitchy or too tough. I disagree with him as that's what I consider common with the more attractive girls..or even a attitude they hold to subconsciously negate guys silently who are too weak to approach them..sort of a mental cop out a guy would have upon first observations of her.

    I am not sure if she is single but It doesnt really matter to me is as so some of her friends are hot as well so a secondary goal of just getting into her "social circle" would be a nice accomplishment if I cant hookup with her. I usually would not be interested in such a second option but considering how If I do find out if shes taken , seeing her with her friends(which I have) I could simply introduce and bounce off of her onto one of her friends.

    Like I said catching her by herself or away from the "main office" is what Im honing for......and im leaning towards asking her to a casual coffee or lunch date after some solid rapport.

    Things are busy and Im not necessarily allowed to creep around waiting to see my target(s) so I am often out and about and not in the vicinity to see her, since I do have a job to perform and goals to accomplish. Sort of makes it bearable and more suitable I think as she has the same duties to perform as well so we wont be in each others hair if things do get going between us.

    Any comments or advice?

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    One of the tricky things about work is certainly the repercussions. If you meet some random girl in the street or at a bar it is great because if you fail with her no-one really knows and so you have nothing to loose. Having nothing to loose usually means you are more natural and confident in your game. So the first thing I would suggest is to imagine your co-workers being strangers and not worrying if it works out or not. Many people meet and fall in love at work and unless there is legal protocol entailed with not dating co-workers you can't let all the negative possibilities affect your game. You just have to go for it. You can utilize email too. Send a message 'hey I like your new hair today ' or whatever. Befriend the IT guy
    Whilst keeping it confidential(not saying what I do) we are in a quite friendly a social environment. Also as well most of us are around the same age, in our mid or early twenties...so theres alot of common ground.

    And what happened with the fellow worker who was called in he was just warned to not let it get out of hand, they just noticed it and basically said theyll allow it as long as its not affecting his work/their work or anything else along those lines.But I think letting it get to that point where its obvious is a big no-no.

    I had a incident with the same girl I mentioned in my first post, who got physical with me(almost a play wrestling) whilst in our "main area" in front of same guy from above(boss) and some co-workers and they thought it was the funniest sh1t, and I didnt get called in or warned. I actually never saw him laugh so hard since he keeps a typical authority attitude. So its pretty lenient....

    Edit: In case anyone is wondering, she got upset as she was trying to tease me and I shut her down and flipped it on her so her solution was to try and struggle and block me physically(from leaving the room) to "let in" to her. Really a strange girl and I never wanted anything to do with her.....I just kept her at bay.

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    White Dragon, I think you'r advice gets over seen, but i see how you'r style works, you do it a respectful but subtle manner and i think more people should appreciate that, I've seen you on other post and I see how you'r stuff works in a deeper level, you'r subtle ways are a true art and i think if people could see the affects of it they would truely see how talented you are. keep it up, and Thanks alot, its nice to see someone with the smae style as me when it comes to high risk situation's.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    Seems the girl has a pretty big ego or something there of, uses and goes by a nick-name, even on the job. I have no idea what it stands for or where she got it at, nor has she ever explained it to anyone. Ive never called her by it, I always used her real name when talking to her.

    Its sort of comedical to me the nickname so I think I could use that to stir up some interesting talk with her.


    Its been ultra-slow in terms of progress. Been away so much that its basically work-lunch-go home and nothing more because current situations of stuff going on.

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    Well found out targeted girl is taken....proves what I thought, typically "these" type of girls stick to their own kind, seemingly not dating outside of their culture.

    Ahh well not a total shocker. Just cross her off the list and go to the next.

    Alot more potential available....

    Alot of creppy guys have been on the prowl out there. Me and my wing are actually in overwatch of this other younger girl where some guy is borderline stalking her. She is taken and has it obvious on FB. She holds her own and keeps the guy at bay but recently he seemingly was physical with her once(like pulling her by her clothing towards him when no one else was around) so we silently have been making our presence known around her, and actually portraying we know hes lurking therefore we are "not leaving her alone" when he is nearby...hoping he picks up and gets scared off. Apparently as well THE BOSS noticed some oddities with this guy and he is possibly aware of it as well...if anything negative starts to come out of this....We dont know what he is trying to pull, or if he is just literally trying to be a creep. I am a firm believer of helping protect girls from harm, regardless if I like them or not, from crazy farks who are just looking for one thing. Thing to note, he only converses with her when no one else is around and its only him and her in the room. He will disappear like the flash if we come in the room. I walked into our main area, saw him talking to her, turned to the front of the room to get paper work, turned back 2 seconds later, he was gone that quick.

    Seen alot of AFC'ism. A guy was trying to dhv talking about some news story and he was carrying on in front of a group of girls and they just said "oh really" and he continued talking whilst no one in the room was really paying attention to him. I was nearby and laughing thinking how hes making up knowledge and nobody cares. Guy was not even familiar with what he was talking about but because females were present he was talking . Whilst everyone listening was thinking .


    A few moments to mention. Was talking casually with a girl I see occasionally. She was in the bosses office working on something and I was checking up with him, and I turned the conversation from him to her and I posted up leaning against the wall but with my side barely facing her...then let my body language do the work... She faced me sitting down, and whilst she was talking took her hand down to her inner thigh inches from her vage... and rested it there and im thinking .Wouldve been equivalent to me talking to her sitting down then straightening out my d1ck in my shorts whilst looking at her. Boss wasnt really paying attention to us and I looked at her then looked at her hand placement and back up. She sort of blushed, but maintained a perfect convo. This girl is a body language cue'er. I accept and acknowledge when she does these things, but she doesnt say much verbally, but then gets obvious with her body. She came out of no where to talk to me once and I just caught and returned. I called her out about coming over to sit by me and she did a quick deny but then wouldnt leave me alone. I havent really pursued her much but I might take a shot. Girl reminds me of these types that keep things quiet, but then after a date they open up heavily, but then sometimes leads to huge clingyness(what ive seen in the past). Really not too interesting of conversation either as of now, so im just moving along.....

    Thought it was entertaining, despite having onlookers, a girl cannot seemingly hold her subconscious actions back, especially if shes feeling something emotional. Watch the body language, always pal...

    Another Good Ex: A girl i AM NOT interested in, Ill make friendly convo just to smooth out my casual openers, but just as well to be nice as I cannot walk around and ignore people and not greet them on the job. Once she sort of leaned back in her chair and threw her chest/boobs out at me in a obvious manner.. seemingly trying to catch my attention. I said something cheesy, she laughed, then I walked out. Even a highly conservative girl will put out some non-verbal signals, just goes to show you what you notice when your actually making eye contact or watching for those body language cues.

    Something to pay attention to, the body language cues, I notice them alot especially when people are on the job and cannot communicate verbally their current intentions and feelings. Then as well females who arent interested or are taken(I compare body language) wont give you much of anything, even abiding by the old Mystery , she gives 3 IOIs rule, you dont even barely get 2 or they are not even necessarily IOIs. You can either Know right away, or if you have to sit and think about it and double check then its not likely shes interested. Makes it easier to decide on a dime when you should and shouldnt act and respond accordingly and promptly.

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    Default Re: Undercover and Stealth mode - At Work

    Upping this one for a bit of updates,

    Switched it up a bit, met back up with a girl I mentioned earlier that was a target. I think I have a solid chance and shes a beaut. Havent had seen her for about a month.

    She gets opened on alot by various people, and guys. I spectated and seen how they talk to her and even though shes down to earth and cool(but intelligent) they still put her on a pedestal. And not a single guy has ever teased her or even acted interested more than locking up cause shes got a pair of tits and a vage LOL. Also they act so stiff, I wish I could have captured video of these dudes, they go up and shes chillin relaxed and the dudes just lock up and totally make it obvious they are trying something...and she acts closed to them then.

    Despite being on the clock I like to ask some of these girls questions to figure out things about them, and at the same time it seems like im interested in them genuinely. They say im doing this, ill ask oh yea why? Get them to explain themselves, then possibly tease em a bit or agree/disagree with them, to see if were on common ground.

    Anyhow I used some oldschool MM to come up to her without making it obvious of what I was doing. Had my wingman at my side and I briefed him that I needed him to take out any blocks if they come about...since thats my biggest problem in this setting. I acted as a moving target, talking to her, whilst doing my paperwork, so I was never directly facing her head on with my body. Basically was trying to build up comfort since this was about the 2nd time I really got to talk to her 1 on 1. My wing exited quickly after about 10 seconds to leave us alone(Props to him for not sticking around).

    She offered me some drinks and such from a little prior get together they had, she had food and I said whered you get that? Was somewhere I wasnt walking too, and I thought it was sweet she offered some stuff on her plate to me...I denied but appreciated the offer. Had some of the drinks though.

    Overall she seemed a bit anxious to see me and I enjoyed her scooping her long hair off her shoulders and fluttering it behind her, along with putting her chest out there....you bet I noticed that. This is where I use my patented notice-her-body whilst shes putting it out there, eyeing her while shes doing this, not staring but a confident glance, without darting the eyes. She was sitting the whole time whilst I worked the room, moving around writing down my paperwork. Made sure I demonstrated I wasnt neutralized by her beauty and I could still do my work and not freeze up like some of the other chumps. A potential blocker did come in and interrupted us but luckily they left after about 35 seconds, I got minorly bothered but felt relief when they exited and left us alone.

    Sort of slow progress but similar to how I work in these situations, have a few good interactions then its nothing getting a number or having a quick date. Just building up the foundation....attrac tion/comfort.

    My wing has had some interesting moments...He asked this girl to hand him something from behind her, out of his reach,and she tells him "anything for you "name"....and says it a bit sexy, and im standing there wide-eyed. Ive never heard her say anything like that to anyone. I act in the same manner being polite and never had her say anything even remotely close like that to me. Seems like operation in plain sight, cant necessarily say "I want you" but spice up the tone and say something submissive, and if you pick up on the signal.....any comments on this?


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