Its my first post in this forum, so as you imagine I've been rejected and need your help.
Last night I went with my friends to a pool party.
I read the mystery method and decided to try it, but when I actually was at the party, I noticed I just cant approach girls and talk to them !
Well, i've known this situation. I've been there before, but I just could'nt say a thing.
I saw another friend of mine, and one minute later I left my other friends that I came with to the party, and went with the other one, and suddenly I felt A GREAT CONFIDENCE.
Then I started to approach every girl at the party, and felt awesome about it.
Here is one of the stories:
We danced next to too girls: HB-8, and HB-9.
Out of nowhere my friend started to dance with the HB-8, and signaled I should go dance with the HB-9.
While she danced next to me, I told her "I dont like your dance moves" - I made up that opener exactly 2 seconds before I said it.
And continoud: "You should do it like me!" (And danced with her).
She smiled, everything went great.
after awhile she said: "now try like me!" (I did).
It seems to me like she wasn't interested, but we were kinda stuck together because my friend was talking with the HB-8 (her friend) next to us, so... I saw I started to lose it, so as a final step I tried a higher value routine:
"Let me see your hand", I hold her hand (Kino), and said: "you know there is a meaning to on which finger you put the ring on ?"
she said "really?" but didnt seem too interested.
I continoud, she had a ring on her middle finger, I told her it means she "search someone serious, or she already have one in her life"
she nodded, I said: "yeah, which of them ?" she said: "already got one".
At this point she thought I would go away, but I decided not to quit only because she is already taken. (probably she is not).
I continoud with the routine, but it got me nowhere.
A minute later, my friend got her friend's phone number, and I got nothing.
I didnt care !
I talked to every girl at that party.
But then... my friend and new wingman went to his other friends, and I went back to mine.
Firstly, I kept on talking to some girls, but after 5 minutes with them - I LOST MY CONFIDENCE AGAIN !!
I didnt talk to any girl at the following 2 hours.
I discovered I have confidence only if I'm with a better player than I am.
Anyway, I decided to join this forum to get better and understand my mistakes.
what do you think about it ?