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    wildcard52 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Cool Need critiques of my approach and text with HB

    So this is my first thread. I just joined the website although I 've heard about the game and read the book.

    So I know this girl I ve met through a random person when i was a senior in college. She was a freshman. I was never interested in her until i was doing my grad work this year in the same college. For awhile we 'd exchange hi's and smile but i never moved in on her for like three years. shes now a junior in college. Recently I approached her very directly.
    Here's the beginning transcript:

    Me: How do we know each other?
    HB: Through Victor ( the random person through which i met er)
    Me: Listen, there's something i need to get off my mind, I usually dont approach someone like this, (she smiled surprisingly) will u like to go out and something. (slight pause). I just wanna get to know you better.

    HB: Sure (slightly enthusiastic)


    After that i handed my phone to her and she automatically knew what to do. From there i just conversed for 15 min.

    I text her two days later. Note texting replies had interval of 20-30min. because it took her awhile to to respond.

    Me: Hey whats up?
    HB: Hey who is this?
    Me: Oh crap I forgot to give you my number. Its (my name). *facepalm*
    HB: Oh hey i figured it d be you. What's up?
    Me: Just working on assignments.

    and that was it... no respond from her not even a day later. I was thinking she lost interest or i was too direct or maybe i should text her saying "I overwhelmed things. Its better for us to be friends."

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    Default Re: Need critiques of my approach and text with HB

    Awesome approach man. Direct is considered high risk/high reward....and you nailed it. The only thing I'd recommend is next time have something specific other than "do something, sometime."

    DO NOT bail just because she didn't respond. Always assume attraction. She probably saw the text, had intentions to reply, and simply got distracted and forgot or she felt that talking about school assignments wasn't that exciting to talk about lol. Your text really didn't require a response if you read it. You were simply stating what you were doing and not asking her anything. I think you are still well in and should keep pushing through and show that confidence. Assume she already wants you bad, but she is being coy so that she doesn't come across as easy. It's your job, as a man, to lead her the the emotions she needs to feel to get her comfortable enough to go to the next level.

    In some cases it's a good idea to build comfort through the phone so that she can meet up with you. This is NOT one of those cases. You went direct so follow through and tell her to meet you at *blank* and make sure to dress *blank* and that it's gonna be awesome! Don't even tell her what you're doing. You can do it man!!
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need critiques of my approach and text with HB

    WHEW! thanks, i feel a lot more at ease, BatMan


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