So this happened a while ago but I wanted to share it with ya'll to get some understanding about why guys do this, and how to stop it in the future.
I was at the bar with my roommate. I didn't plan on sarging that night because my roommate has a few mental health problems and I just wanted her to have a good time. What little did I know I would have an awesome night So we get to the bar order a drink watch the show and decide to go out for a smoke. In the line up this guy comes out of no where and starts grinding against me (obviously he has had way too much to drink) Automatically I straighten up to appear bigger than he is and I tell him "Hey I'm gay. I'm not interested." he said "Yeah, Yeah me too, so come on." and continues to hump my leg. Then I shove him off of me and he goes back about 4ft, looks stunned then walks off.
Outside we chat up some girls sitting next to us and have a good conversation. Some really, really drunk girls stumble into my lap (literally) and this nurse tells me how beautiful I am (about 5 times in one sentence) and sits on my lap and lets me touch her ass. I was in the middle of telling my roommate a story when her and her friends deiced to go and dance and invite me to come along. I tell her "No... *devil smile* I'm in the middle of a story. I will dance with you when I'm done." She accepts that and off she goes. The girls from across the table said "Ooooo damn that was good. Your smooth." I finish my story and have to use to washroom so I ask my roommate if it is ok if I leave. She said it was fine.
Downstairs I see the girl that was on my lap making out hardcore with this other girl and I knew that I had been replaced for the night. I shrugged it off as another one of her really drunk friends was giving me flack for not choosing her (she was falling all over the place it was sad) I ended the conversation with a "Yeah... well... whaaatever" and proceeded to the washroom. I decide to watch the show a bit and made lusty eye-contact with this dark haired girl. She was in a 3-set with the other two girls making out with each other. Then suddenly she was dancing with me, then all three of them were dancing (grinding) with me, then I was making out with the dark haired girl, then we were all making out with each other and switching partners. This seemed to have happened in a matter of seconds with absolutely no conversation previously. We decided to go upstairs to dance and on the way we exchanged names and I made them guess my age. Upstairs, we all just made out hardcore against the wall between switching it up and all three of them trying to get a piece of me. After a while it was time for a smoke.
I met up with my roommate who was hooking up with this one girl whose friends had ditched her (the friends were the previous drunk girls from before). They came out for a smoke with us we had some good chats then the 3-set had to go. And one by one in a line they all kissed me on the lips and out the door. I didn't Number Close but man was that a good time! The girl that my roommate had was actually quite a buzz kill: she was self-deprecating and too drunk to see straight or walk straight. But she wanted to go watch the show so we helped her out. I tried to give them some alone time by wandering off and when I came back. My roommate was in a sandwich with the same guy that was humping my leg before. I thought they were having a good time until my roommate made eye contact with me and I knew it was time for him to go. I wrap my arm around the girl and tell the guy that its time to go home he said "No no she's with me." I said "No she's with us and she has to find her friends." He said "Her friends are in the hotel, I'll bring her there." I said "How the f*** do you know where her friends are!? Get off. Were leaving." Then I peeled her off him and helped her walk away. Since I knew what her friends looked like I left her and my roommate alone to wander the bar to see if I could find them. I didn't. When I came back they were making out hardcore so I have them some space until I was like its time to go home. (My roommate told me later that when I left them the guy came back and tried to steal her away from my roommate and she literally had to shove him off of her until he fell over for him to get the hint)
The story gets boring from here. Outside we found her friends at the pizza place. The girl bought herself some pizza and we all chilled for a bit. I told my roommate it was time to go home. She didn't want to leave the girl alone I was fed up with taking care of this ungrateful b**** and told my roommate that I'm leaving she can follow me if she wants. We said bye and went home. On the way I gave my roommate a mini-lecture about "This is why you leave the really REALLY drunk girls alone. Then you, the more-or-less sober one starts feeling responsible for these ungrateful b****** who aren't gunna remember the nice girls that helped take care of her last night"
Please bring to light any flaws I might of had in my game but my REAL focus for this post is: What is up with that dude!? Why couldn't he just get the hint (aside from being really intoxicated) that he was unwanted. I'm sure most of you guys haven't run into this problem but my question is: "What can I do, if this type of situation ever happens again to STOP IT the first time and not have to deal with him coming back for more?"
(And no none of the bouncers or security at the bar saw any of this happening so they didn't try to stop it. Maybe I should of just reported his behavior to the bouncers and been done with him there?)