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Thread: My buyers remorse story

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    Default My buyers remorse story

    So back in the 2nd week of august i moved from san diego to seattle. I had gone to seattle for a job interview landed the job as was flying out in morning at about 700 am. i stopped at the bar to order a drink @ 0600 when the bar opened. There was an HB8 blonde sitting so i pulled up a seat, and chatted her up. We ended up drinking 3 bloody mary's and i ended up walking her to her gate which ended up being the same flight and she was two rows behind me. I had got up several times during the flight to use the bathroom each time she smiled and we would exchange a few words, and i would proceed to sit down. I got off the plane knowing that sd international was a very small airport and we would eventually see each other out there.

    I approached her outside in the pick up area, and said i look foward to seeing you again. She responded i would like that here is my number. She went in for the hug when we said good bye. She proceeded to text me for the next 5 days asking where to go and fun things to do in SD. Needless to say she had a blast because i knew alot about SD.

    We proceeded with small talk from there throughout the next week until we established a time to meet up. We ended up going to the beach and grab a drink was the plan. She said she knew of a great beach and took me out to this private point on the lake where no one was. I brought the beers and we proceeded to chat and sun bathe and splash in the water. From there we went and grabbed a bite to eat and some brews. She knew all the waitresses by there first name. The waitresses all giggled and would ask her who this fine young gentlemen she was with was. (led me to think she is a bit of man hopper)

    We get back to her house where she proceeds to crack some red wine and states that she as addiction to watching the show intervention and asks me to watch it worth her. All the Io's were there so progressed into some Kino and soon we were making out. 1130 rolled around and she stated she was going to bed. I said alright well i will get going then. She asked "what time do you have to work in the morning?" i stated at 0530 i had to be there. She said you can just stay here with me if it makes it easier. I bit on the offer. Needless to say i F-closed that night and woke up naked with her spooning me.

    She walked me to the door in the morning and told me she had a great time and we should hang out again. I kissed her goodbye (mistake 1) She stated oh evan from san diego your a real charmer. I went about my business that day and we proceeded to text. I proceeded to plan the next time she was available. She stated wednesday. So i texted her wednesday and she told me she had to cancel. So i said how about friday (mistake2) she gave me some bs story she was having dinner with her parents when she already had told me that she was going to watch movies with her roomate. i called bs(mistake 3) at the point i believe i showed a sign of weakness or neediness.

    i think this was where the true damage was done or was it possibly buyers remorse from f-closing the first night? we proceeded to text each other but we talked less frequently to the point we just stopped eventually. I deleted her number to move on went about my life. Needless to say i did not like her nor did i want a gf out of her, but i certainly wanted to fark her again because she was a good lay.

    To this day it still pops up in my mind as one of those failure situations.

    Any input would be appreciated on how i may have done things or a different proccess would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: My buyers remorse story

    I don't think the kiss was bad. I try to be a gentleman the next day. Even sending her one nice text was fine
    But then you could have calmed it

    It sounds like she knew what she was doing, and she got what she wanted. Kinda sounds like she gamed you lol

    Some girls out there do just want a piece
    With a girl that aggressive I woulda chilled on the text for at least a day after

    But that's not my general advice, usually as a rule I always text them the day after so they don't feel like a slut. This girl is just different

    But you did show some AFC signs, like calling her out and asking her for a different day

    But hey I gamed a girl recently slept with her twice then she rejected my next 2 invites, so I told her something like no biggie let me know when you're free
    (not the best) but It shows a sign it's her time to text me when it works. Haven't and won't text her again until she hits me up.

    In general, wait a few days before a second invite

    My situation is easier because she is only 1 of 4 girls I've been gaming and I have 2 other intimate dates coming up with 2 of them. So when she flakes? I don't care, at all
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    Default Re: My buyers remorse story

    I was gonna add something, but Red Baron said it all. lol
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: My buyers remorse story

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    I don't think the kiss was bad. I try to be a gentleman the next day. Even sending her one nice text was fine
    But then you could have calmed it

    It sounds like she knew what she was doing, and she got what she wanted. Kinda sounds like she gamed you lol

    Some girls out there do just want a piece
    With a girl that aggressive I woulda chilled on the text for at least a day after

    But that's not my general advice, usually as a rule I always text them the day after so they don't feel like a slut. This girl is just different

    But you did show some AFC signs, like calling her out and asking her for a different day

    But hey I gamed a girl recently slept with her twice then she rejected my next 2 invites, so I told her something like no biggie let me know when you're free
    (not the best) but It shows a sign it's her time to text me when it works. Haven't and won't text her again until she hits me up.

    In general, wait a few days before a second invite

    My situation is easier because she is only 1 of 4 girls I've been gaming and I have 2 other intimate dates coming up with 2 of them. So when she flakes? I don't care, at all

    Thanks for the feedback. I really agree with the calling her out part. Definetly AFC move

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    Default Re: My buyers remorse story

    it more or less mind fucked me. i dont think i have ever had a girl do that too me before which is why it still irks me


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