So I don't know what happened with this, and its really stressing me out because I actually started to have some feelings for this girl.
Ive been seeing her all week, as I kept getting calls to come over and hang from my friend Kirsten. Kirsten introduced me to this girl and we ended up hitting it off really well.
I have to mention that this girl Kara who I am talking about, just got out of a 2 year relationship, where she actually lived with her boyfriend.
She broke up with him recently because he was not a good boyfriend, then got back togethor, then split up again. All within about the last month and a half.
Anyways I asked her what her feelings were for him, and I realise that she could not completly have no feelings for him, but where they stand. She states that she does not love him like that anymore and that she wants to be away from him now.
So that was last night. We had a little party with some close friends and had some fun. The whole time like the rest of the past week, we were kissing and all over each other.
The night before we went for a long drive out into the country. Where we stopped at a secluded location, build deep rapport (looking at the stars, talking about our lives,kissing) and then it escalated to us talking our shirts off. Once I got her top off she took off my shirt. I got her pants off and started eating her out. It proceeded to me getting a very sexy blowjob. I wanted to see if I would be able to get inside but she said no because she was afraid I would never call her again. Which I thought was adorable. LOL. With time and more hanging out she said, we would have sex, and that it would be amazing.
She would always tell me that she really cared about me. And that she wants to be with me. The morning after the country drive. I unexpectedly ran into her while at my friend kirstens, where she pulled up out of nowhere before work. We were kissing and building more rapport again, like it had been. And so I let her wear my scarf to work for the day. She wore it all day and when I seen her later, which was last night, she still had on my scarf.
She tells me im amazing and that I make her feel like a real woman. And calls to make sure I make it home safe every time after we hang out. Last night I made it home alot later than I had told her because I had to eat something after drinking that night. And she calls me wondering whether im home safe and that she is very happy being around me.
Then today things change. I dont talk to her all day and finally when I text her later on in the day to ask if she is okay, she responds by saying "we should be friends". I was shocked. I didnt really know what to say. I asked her what she was talking about and she said that she had been talking to her ex that day and her feelings were coming back
I just dont get it.. Her ex had been calling her up and stressing her out? She said she didnt even have that spark for him anymore? We never planned on dating but she always seemed like she wanted me to be her man. Calling me her "boo" and her "teddy bear". Seeing her face light up when I looked at her.
I really liked her and she did more of the chasing than I did. What happened?? Is this dead? Please help