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Thread: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

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    Default Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    I dont feel like trying recounting the precise details for various reasons.

    I was in a good mood from the start but her silence, responses, and looks at me made it downhill straight from the opener. Get this: She gives this bitch face after the opener and looks around like shes looking for a video camera or group of guys and snarls at me 'did someone tell you to do this?' like its she thinks it some sort of prank. then she stares are me in silence with a disgust face. I pretty much dug myself deeper and deeper from the start. I felt more and more like she didnt like me and got more.... whats the word? timid. I started explaining myself a ton. then lots of sporadic silence. she answers short terse replies for my questions with her weirded out face. then she immediately says her friend is there and she has to study for a test. she calls him. more awkward silences. I do not leave because I want to fking prove Im not hitting on her by being friendly to this guy. He comes along and he says some things and gives the look like 'this chode is hitting on you' I start explaining some BS about just trying to be social. Then I am just in a huge hole now and they just dont say a thing and I act more beta and say 'I just want to make some friends and if you think Im a loser then whatever' or something like that and shrug. They both give a half-hearted 'no' and then the girl walks off with the slightly bitch, slightly disgusted, dislike face. She says something like 'we really have to study for this test'

    On the bright side, I made a new guy friend from a approach. Im no homo and I dont feel that much fear anymore especially when I know they aren't popular or anything

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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    yeah thats pretty weird, and since im assuming your not a loser since you opened her just fine it must have been something that had happened to her recently to make her suspect that. maybe she surrouds herself with friends that try to set her up all the time, who knows but whatever the reason, you dont want her anyways.
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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    I was thinking its because SimplePickup is being too fucking mainstream. I dunno though. I hope not

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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    yeah that is a definite possibility, ive noticed its been more of a challenge to get girls to accept that shes being gamed aha.
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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    if it is because of that though, it just means that we have to be better at what were doing, and i like that drive. its not easy, and its not going to get easier, but we can get better and thats all i care about. control what you can and be more sincere than they are. they make it pretty obvious from the get go, thats why i havent lately
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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    Quote Originally Posted by peel View Post
    I was thinking its because SimplePickup is being too farking mainstream. I dunno though. I hope not
    I wouldn't go that far. Pick Up is still fairly underground, day game is even more underground, and College Game is practically unheard of.

    Fact of the matter is you hit a landmine. Every once in a while you get a girl who just does not want to talk to you. And that's fine. I go through phases where I don't feel like talking to people either. It's natural. And while I do give you props for sticking with it, when you get the vibe that thing's aren't going to get any better you just have to eject.

    Keep in mind that you are the prize here. You're giving her a chance to prove herself to you, and she's got to meet your high standards. Don't justify yourself and don't apologize. You're just out meeting new people, you're not doing anything wrong.

    I want you to check out this site. It's run by Andy Yosha and his friend Yad. These guys practically invented day game, and honestly College Game is just a type of Day Game with a few parties and some clubs. Sign up for their newsletter, they'll send you some free videos over the next couple of days. Watch them. Day 1 will help you out with approaching on busy sidewalks, which seems to be a sticking point for you. Day 2 is going to be your bread and butter, It'll help you get past these conversational dead zones you've been having.

    You're making great progress Peel. Just keep it up.
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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    "I do not leave because I want to fking prove Im not hitting on her by being friendly to this guy."

    you lost your frame when you started trying to qualify yourself to her like that. the alpha thing to do would have been to call her out on her "friendliness" say something like "you know you are like the friendliest person i have met all day" its a subtle neg that will also serve to show that you aren't realy trying to hit on her

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    Default Re: Recent College Report - Crash and burn - no explanation necessary

    These girls are around dont let them get to you, I agree with every piece of advice given. Just learn from this! That is the point of crash and burn wouldn't you agree?
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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