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Thread: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

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    Default Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    I'm new to sarging and have only been out a couple of times but I pretty much got into it for stripper game... tired of being AFC and dreaming of 10s in my life. I listened to Fader's intro to stripper game, took copious notes, and decided to go solo to the club tonight (a Monday) after a long day of work.

    I showed up at about 9:45pm - it's been over 10 years since I was in a club, but I was looking forward to giving it a shot. $10 cover and I found a seat in the bar. It was pretty empty - maybe 7-9 girls and about the same guys - i ordered a beer and started chatting up the bartender - an older dude, Jorge, that had been working there 16 years. I had good energy, smiling, asking him about funny stories, etc.

    After about 5-10 min a smoking hot, young, petite black girl sits next to me and opens:

    "Hey there"
    (stoic) "Hey"
    "How you doing tonight?"
    (Fader's opener) "Honestly I'm pretty miserable"
    (she's a little taken off guard) "Why is that?"
    "Well I have this f'd up relationship with God... I've been trying to make it better and so my mom decided to drop me off here for bible study..." (she has a half-look of terror on her face) "...but the only thing is that everyone here is half-naked and no one is carrying a bible. What the hell??"
    (takes her a second and then she laughs loudly and exclaims "oh my god I was like 'what the hell this guy is craaaazy' oh man" - ice broken

    It was odd, she actually never asked me for a lap dance... I was just waiting for it but it never came.

    She asks me: "so what's your name?"
    "Names are silly - what's yours?"
    "August"
    "that's a new one. Mine is bunny" (she laughs)
    "that's hilarious!"
    "it's true, I used to date a dancer back in New York for 2 years... I had to learn to use a fake name because all the dancers would always be up on my sh1t, try to stalk me." (still smiling) "I'll be honest, I actually give them a fake number sometimes" - I was trying to set the frame early that I'm not a customer or someone that falls for fake numbers

    From there I asked her what the tip out was and she started reciting the different amounts. I watched her eyes and saw them going up and to the left so I pointed that out and ran through Style's visual vs. kinesthetic routine. I could feel she was getting hooked. I bought her a drink.

    I was looking her in the eyes the entire time and she was getting more engaged - at one point I said "dammit, I've given up too much about myself, we're getting divorced now. You can keep the cat" - she seemed very amused by it and told me how she just got a new kitten (which I brought up in conversation later to say how she's a caretaker for others).

    I asked her who her best friend in the club was and she said no one - it was her first day and the girls were all really catty - Both bartenders later confirmed that story with me after she got up. Who cares if it was true or not I felt unstoppable.

    After 20-30 minutes I was so confused that she hadn't once asked for a lap dance I said "hey I know it's important to be out and making money so take this for now" and I just gave her $20. It was awkward and weird for a second - she was like "well... thanks I guess... I was enjoying your company" so I immediately broke the frame and jumped into the cube "ok so check it out - my friend did this to me and got my personality perfectly- you want to try?" She was hooked again. Note to self, don't just give money unless it's necessary, lol. It was weird (but it might have solidified the encounter, who knows).

    I ran through the cube (which worked amazingly - she was totally engrossed - DDBL the whole time. Other girls would come by asking for a dollar "did you see me dance?" and I'd dismiss them by saying "sorry, love, I'm in the middle of a story here with August" - she seemed to like that. A couple times I'd make little comments after the girl would leave like "ummm... was that a man?" which she seemed to love. After the cube I said "so, do you trust me enough to tell me your real name now?" to which she said "yes - " and we exchanged names.

    I broke silences quickly with the Magic Spells story and eliciting values. A little bit of fluff and learning about her mom, brother, and that she used to work at Spearmint Rhino in Vegas.

    After about 50 minutes she said "I'm gonna go put my clothes on - stay here, ok? Don't leave" I wanted to get the number right then but didn't. I was confident I was in. After about 5-10 minutes I saw her go up on stage and I wondered if I misheard her and maybe she said "I'm gonna go take my clothes OFF" but I didn't mind. I tried to make some eye contact with her from across the bar a few times and otherwise continued to chat up the bartenders a bit.

    She came back after the dance and repeated "ok, I'm gonna go get dressed don't leave!" so I stayed. I texted my wing, Voodoo, that I just had my first Number Close and it was a stripper (assuming I had it in the bag).

    What followed was the f'ng longest 45 minutes of my life. I figured she probably had tip out, etc but honestly had no clue how long that would take. I was super chill and relaxed the first 25 minutes, then I started getting a little nervous, lol. What if she just snuck out the back and left... that didn't make sense though - I knew we had a solid connection. So I kept waiting, dismissing the other girls that came by.

    Finally, after what felt like an absolute eternity, she came out, walked right to me, and I gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek and said "Let's pick this back up sometime it was fun. Can I have your number?"
    "If you can remember it"
    "sure"
    (she gives me her number a couple times in my ear as I fumbled around trying to remember it. Finally I got it right and she smiled at me)
    "night, love"
    And she was gone.

    I put it in my phone immediately and texted her: "[her number] I had it the first time I was just playin hard 2 get =) put me in ur phone, love, before that man-woman comes back and steals me away forever:"
    She responds immediately: "Lol imma steal U " - and I was damned stoked

    So that's the story. Closed my first stripper on the first shot and I'll tell you I'm completely stoked. I have no idea how to play it from here though - I DON'T want her to flake but I realize it happens.

    Any suggestions on how long I should wait to text her again? And what to text?

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    strippers are good practice, but like i tell everybody else that closes with a Stripper, its like playing tennis with the net down
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    That was GREAT game! BRAVO! the only thing i can tell u is that next time u should have chatted up other strippers and when she came back u dismiss the one u're with provided the first one was hotter. I'm gonna give u a solid text opener but that won't do anything unless u're a solid texter. Read t-mal ' s conversational bible and gunsandglory's texting guide.
    The opener is: I was trying to kick my text addiction,but decided to relapse just for you
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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    okay, i love that opener xavier. so stealing that
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    For sure, ill use it. I actually checked out some of the texting guides last night.

    Should I text today or let it ride a day?

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    Freakin' awesome, bro!

    You definitely have a talent for internalizing the material and executing it.

    I believe whether it's this dancer or another you are well on your way to master PUAism.

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    Thanks for the props. Just gotta figure out how long to wait to text her. I ended our texts last night with "night girl... dream about buying me that camaro" (was one of her goals to get that car) but didn't get a reply so it might have been a dlv. Might be worth it to wait a day, not sure.

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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    I have never gamed a Stripper so take my advice with a grain of salt... when she said dont leave the 2nd time, i might have just asked for her number, told her i had somewhere to be soon (or early start at work or whatever) and waited 10 minutes or so and left if she didnt come out.

    All guys in that club would have waited 2 hours if a stripper told them to. By waiting on her ur acting like other guys. Now, She may have been genuinely busy or she may have been doing ...ahem... 'other things' lol. She probably wanted to see u again. But waiting on a girl is never a great idea. Leave her wanting more and all that

    To me its similar to a girl at a regular job. She's busy so its not like your going to wait around for her to close up shop. Your going to tell her to meet u after work or this weekend etc.

    Again, not my usual fortay so im not claiming to be an expert. Everything else u did was VERY solid. You did ALOT of things right for a first time sarge so u have a great future ahead of you in the stripper aspect
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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    I have never gamed a Stripper so take my advice with a grain of salt... when she said dont leave the 2nd time, i might have just asked for her number, told her i had somewhere to be soon (or early start at work or whatever) and waited 10 minutes or so and left if she didnt come out.

    All guys in that club would have waited 2 hours if a stripper told them to. By waiting on her ur acting like other guys. Now, She may have been genuinely busy or she may have been doing ...ahem... 'other things' lol. She probably wanted to see u again. But waiting on a girl is never a great idea. Leave her wanting more and all that

    To me its similar to a girl at a regular job. She's busy so its not like your going to wait around for her to close up shop. Your going to tell her to meet u after work or this weekend etc.

    Again, not my usual fortay so im not claiming to be an expert. Everything else u did was VERY solid. You did ALOT of things right for a first time sarge so u have a great future ahead of you in the stripper aspect
    Still waiting for your info bro
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    Default Re: Stripper Number Close - First Stripper Sarge

    I agree, thanks for the advice bro. Waiting definitely felt wrong- I should have split or sarged another girl. Next time I'll grab the # before she goes. In hindsight I should have asked to meet up after hours that night as well. Either way I'm going to a different club tonight with the goal of 2 numbers... to get my mind off the first. I'm gonna wait until tomorrow night to text her, at the earliest.


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