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Thread: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why!?

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    Default In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why!?

    Sometimes my openings work wonders for me, I could have a worldy rubbing up on me etc... But I just can't take it anywhere... Suggestions?

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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    No nice way to put his....if your saying you have attraction and she's grinding on you then in a club the best advice is just to man up and go for it....it does not matter if she rejects you everyone will be drunk no one will notice and no one will care

    Linking x

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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    I feel you man, you get that knot turning feeling in your stomach and start to think all these things and you mind goes blank. Yeah it happens to all of us. But its obvious you do not approach women regularly from your huge fear. Like Linking said , man up and just go for it! worst case scenario, 'sorry i have a bf' . No body died, you didn't get smacked , most women will shoot you down nicely but the more u approach, the tighter your game will be and the less it will happen good luck!

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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    I'm not going to reiterate what everyone said so far but they're 110% correct...man up!

    2 useful quotes I always keep on my mind are this,

    1) "You have nothing to lose and a fortune (knowledge in this case) to gain"

    2) "She'll forgive you for being a man, but she won't forgive you for being a pussy"

    If you go in for the kiss it'll at the VERY LEAST show her that YOU know what YOU want...if you take too long to make a move it shows her you're not confident...it's tough to make that first move but I PROMISE you will not regret it.

    Go get em man! Good luck
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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    Lesson learnt! Nice one fella's... Looking forward to this weekend!

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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    Sorry. I don't quite get how you are unable to close. If she's already grinding on you, then that's either a major ioi or she's just playing you. In either case, applying the appropriate methods; negs, H-R-R, dhv, metaframing etc. should be able to get you the desired outcome. E.g. if she's grinding on you even before you've DHV or negged her, then maybe saying something like, "Hey.. I'm not that easy" might go a long way? I don't know because we don't have the full field report here. A little more details perhaps? That way, we know whether it could have been something you said, or did.

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    Default Re: In a club I can do the easy part, I just can't kiss/number close... Why

    Be careful with the grinding. Girls pretty much grind on everyone and guys think they can get a number or worse.....laid. It doesn't mean anything if she just goes up and grinds on you. It's your job to make it matter.

    What I usually do is push her away and wave a finger at her as if to say "You're bad. I'm gonna keep an eye on you." Then I'll pull her back in. Do this several times and it raises the Tension like crazy. Guys don't usually push girls away so she will be frustrated and might even think you're gay, until you move in and kiss her neck. It'll confuse the shit out of her. All she'll love you for it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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