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Thread: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

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    Default Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    So I go out to eat late night by myself at a local diner not interested in meeting anyone. In walks this knock out blonde 9/10 that she sits one stool down from me at the bar. I decide to joke with her about her trying to steal some food, she laughs, touches my leg, then starts to sulk about her sorority and how all the girls are so mean. I gave her some advice that those girls are probably just jealous, etc... As she gets her food to go she grabs my check and tells the waiter it is on her. The waiter who is a friend of mine tells me in front of her "you better get her number" so I say to her "how bout that" giving her my phone she smiles and says in this sweet sultry voice "well yeah sure". The first time they ran her credit card it timed out and she said "I don't know what's wrong there is over 50K in there"(which to me is a sign she is trying to impress me)it later worked. So I asked her how she was getting home and she said she was walking which to I said heck no. And she said "well you gonna drive me" "yep". But as I am walking her to my car I suggest we go eat at this park across the street. She starts telling me how she is spoiled and rich but wants a different life, that some family member she loves is dieing and she would give up everything for them. I try to comfort her and I feel like we connected a bit on values and different things. Then she perks up and wants me to take pictures of her posing by the fountain, next thing I know she is kissing me and we wonder across the park to another fountain where she takes off her dress and jumps in the cold fountain. She asks me to get in but I just couldn't do it. At this point I was to shy to get naked in a public fountain and I also didn't want this to be a One Night Stand. From the two hours we talked the romantic in me sensed she was very different than the average party girl in this college town. As I take her home around 5am I ask her if she is free the next night and she says "yes what do you have in mind" and I said I will have to get back with you(wanted to find a bar with live music). She kisses me goodbye and tells me to text her. I text her right as I left(probably a mistake) saying "It was an awesome night. I will never forget you jumping in the fountain. Hope to see your smiling face soon" to which she later texted me back the next day" I had and awesome time too! But could you delete those nude pics of me lol Don't want to end up on the internet lol" I felt that meant she was pulling away so I texted her back and said "no problem. tonight I am kinda busy can I reschedule our date on Sun?" she says" I would love to! Just hoping I don't have a ton of homework. Will let you know soon!" but she never did. I just texted her late Sunday and she responded saying she was sorry because she had been talking to a guy that she is now dating and that she was drunk and led me on. She said she didn't mean to hurt my feelings and that I deserve someone special etc... I have been out of the game for a while since I had a serious gf for 2 yrs right before this so maybe I am rusty. I don't want to be a jerk to get girls but I like to connect on more than just superficial. The more I learn about her from friends she has only had a few bfs and she treated them like gold. I think she might have been a true catch but now I guess I will never know.

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aah.... bro I hate when that happens. *sign*

    Firstly, just a small detail, when a girl geta naked in a fountain there's two places you should never be. One is in clothes, and the other is anywhere that isn't in her fountain

    More srsly tho, staying out of the fountain creates a vulnerability imbalance which highly fosters buyers remorse.

    Secondly, about wanting to connect with her on a deeper level; it's sad to say but most girls aren't going to give you that chance unless they are invested enough in you by sleeping with you
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    what. the fuck.
    Id say ASD and other guys trying super hard (harder than you) caused her to flake and whoever that dude was sealed the deal with LTR She was probably emotionally horny that night.
    Anyhow it seems too late now. Its not a surprise but hot girls have a surprisingly huge amount of hidden dudes trying to be her boyfriend and so im not surprised. Ive heard another story with the same thing. Another dude thought it was going great only to find out she chose another dude she was seeing

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    thats what my friends call a one time moment. We all get those sometimes but the thing is you learn from your mistakes. Rinse and repeat you will get the hang of it.

    So what does that mean? Its basically a test. You could say a sh$t test. A party girl who would DTF and f-close that same night. However, if you approach in a nice guy way and want to 'date' her say the following day she will flake. Blame it on the alcohol and the bad lighting.

    Point of the matter is that if someone present to you a basket filled with lemons you make lemonade. This rule applies especially to girls who you meet at bars, clubs, lounges. Pretty much after 8pm at any venue this rule applies. She gives you lemons you make lemonade.

    Sorry bro.
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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    Yeah one of my buddies said that she probably felt like I was unattracted to her because I didn't jump in. My other friend said if I had gotten arrested it would have been the best criminal record ever haha.

    I do feel like we connected though. I didn't go into detail because I didn't want to write a book for you guys to read. She was super smart and really cared about people. I could care less about her sorority or her money. I have mostly dated rich girls probably because I like classy girls. I don't have money and I notice how there are so many spoiled girls now that haven't a clue about the real world. So I find alot of them boring conversationalists and some down right annoying. It is hard to find a beautiful girl that is humble and wants to care for other people. How many young beautiful women can cook more than mac and cheese these days? Living in a college town there are tons of beautiful women but alot of them are so spoiled by mommy and daddy that I don't know how to relate.

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    I agree. But dont worry, the race is not for the swift as the old saying goes. You are still a young lad anyway, and based on your post you are a very deep intellectual type of individual. So enjoy your college life. You have grad school and the working life to look forward to.

    Now what do you do in the mean time? Meet new girls and have fun. If you run into that girl that meet the qualities/attributes that you listed then you are good to go. Until then continue to build yourself. One thing is for sure, the older you get the wiser you will become and those party/spoiled girls you see in college right now some of them will grow up. Why do you think older women are very direct and some even chase quiet/'nice' guys? Some of it is because of regret but whatever what can you do?




    Quote Originally Posted by tylers View Post
    Yeah one of my buddies said that she probably felt like I was unattracted to her because I didn't jump in. My other friend said if I had gotten arrested it would have been the best criminal record ever haha.

    I do feel like we connected though. I didn't go into detail because I didn't want to write a book for you guys to read. She was super smart and really cared about people. I could care less about her sorority or her money. I have mostly dated rich girls probably because I like classy girls. I don't have money and I notice how there are so many spoiled girls now that haven't a clue about the real world. So I find alot of them boring conversationalists and some down right annoying. It is hard to find a beautiful girl that is humble and wants to care for other people. How many young beautiful women can cook more than mac and cheese these days? Living in a college town there are tons of beautiful women but alot of them are so spoiled by mommy and daddy that I don't know how to relate.
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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    You're not out of the race just yet, you have her number but I am not saying text her or anything. I agree with Top Gun that the race is not always to the swift. So in the meantime develop your game and this means seeing other women and who knows when you have developed enough confidence and game maybe you can try and reconnect through texts or you may see her again since its a college town in which anything can happen but the main things is to be ready and seize the opportunity when it comes.

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    So should I text her every once in a while out of the blue to keep the door open?

    My ex that moved away just texted me last night telling me she had kissed all these new guys but that she didn't feel anything for them. Then she asked me if I had met anyone to which I said "Do you really want to know?" she said yes and that she hoped I could find someone special . I felt she was trying to be mean so I texted a pic of this other girl in her lengerie in the fountain haha. I am getting tired of being nice.

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    ... so, did you actually delete the pics? What, am I not the only one wondering that?!

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    Default Re: Girl buys me dinner, takes off her clothes then flakes out?

    ^ i sure hope not but seriously that was a solid effort on your part to witness such an event (:


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