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    Default 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    My buddy and I went to our favorite club last night. As soon as we walked in, bee-lining for the restroom, a gorgeous blonde actually just grabbed me and pulled me in. She was with two friends and came on strong. I really had to piss though, so I was still facing the bathroom and trying to edge off, then she said, "I tripped," and I'm like uh huh lol. I just told her I had to use the restroom and gave a sign like maybe I'd be back. By the time I got back though, she and her friends were with three other dudes. We waited a while thinking they'd blow them off but it never happened. How should I have kept her hooked despite having to piss myself?

    Anyway, I wasn't too concerned with them. There would be other girls, and there were. We grabbed a drink and went back upstairs and two were there giving us clear signals. I went up and just started dancing with one. Things went really well, we vibed, I made out with her up against a wall [although she then kept saying how she's too shy to make out with me anymore]. Found out she's in her last year of a neurobiology degree or something like that, complimented her on being smart, etc.

    Eventually we went outside to talk a bit and I convinced her to come grab some food with us, even though she kept saying how she had to be up early and couldn't come home with me, etc. My friend's girl agrees too, despite the fact she has a boyfriend, but for some reason his dumb ass says no. He says he just wanted to keep dancing with her but he's oblivious and dumb as bricks. It was already 1:30 so lights came on in 15 min and they bounced, after he then tried to ineptly get them to leave with us then. There's my small rant. How do I get her to ditch her friend? I guess she almost was a couple times. I did compliment her on being a good friend though.

    Anyway, I got her number though, she seems into me. I feel stuck though and am not that confident with texting. I wanted to hang out today but she seemed not into it. If things go slow I think nothing is going to happen, so how do I push through this?

    me: "Well hey Jenna. The bike shop must be packed today lol" [she had to work at the bike shop at 9]

    Jenna: So slammed! Biking is the best in the snow. And.. this is?

    Me: Haha I forgot that I was the 4th dude of the night. Your innocent shyness is just so deceptive! - Tim [another inside joke obviously; we had a fun vibe going where she was joking about picking up dudes all the time, which I believe started from her thinking I was a player lol. Later on she did ask how far I'd go in the middle of the club so I stuck my hand up her dress lol]

    Her: Ohh yeah Tim! Haha I was pretty sure that was you, but I had to check before I embarrass myself. How are you doing today?

    Me: Oh you know.. At some point maybe I'll make it out of bed lol. Cocoa and s'mores might help entice me.

    Her: I am super jealous. I got like 4 hours of sleep, I am feeling pretty rough [I was hoping she'd bite on cocoa but ahh nothing in life is ever that easy huh]

    Me: Ouch! You should get some sleep. When do you get off work?

    Her: Not until 7 I have like a ten hour day. Saturdays are the worst!

    Me: lol just tell them they're wasting money being open right now, go pass out for 12 hours, then come have mimosas with me tomorrow morning. [seemed like tonight was out with her talking about sleep deprivation, yeah? Should I have just held off more because of the lack of response to cocoa and smores?]

    her: I wish! That does sound pretty awesome [I feel like maybe she just ignored the mimosa part... I decided to willfully interpret it as mimosas sound awesome though lol]

    Me: Sounds good. Apparently S [buddy] is pretty keen on your friend. He won't stop bugging me trying to get a double date, cook dinner for everyone. [I mostly said this to confirm the date but keep convo going. I had run out of things I wanted to talk about, pretty much knew his dumb ass wasn't getting laid; his girl had a boyfriend and he didn't even get her number. Probably should've made fun of him more because, well, I did it to his face too and he threw a fit and demanded that I demand that the girl brings her friend and lets him make us dinner. lol... friends He still doesn't believe she has a boyfriend... yet I keep telling him I had to keep my girl from cockblocking him about 5 times. Coulda gotten laid if he just went to the god damn food place with us]

    Her: Aw well, that probably isnt' going to work out sadly

    Me: Yeah lol I know. I've been telling him as much. I'd rather hang out without them anyway.

    Her: Haha yeah, for sure. Well I don't know about tomorrow but sometime soon.

    At this point I've just left it. I don't know how to respond to that. I don't want to pursue her here, I don't know what else to talk about. I could just assume she means it and try to schedule again, but it seems like I'm validating her flakiness with attention if I push here. Sometime soon? What's my move?

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    Default Re: 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    I'm going to go with, "So you're saying you want to come warm me up and watch a movie here tonight? Jeez girl, you come on quick." I feel like worse case she says no and we laugh about it. I'd really like to just make this happen this weekend though; I don't want to get in a long drawn out thing. I guess she'll let me know if it was too much. Any other gambits to get this to happen sooner rather than later? And worst case how do I transition this to a later meetup?

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    Default Re: 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    Make one or two efforts then move on. Keep it to within three attempts. Anything after that you look bad

    From your text the only thing is I noticed you seemed to keep your time frame within 24 hours. This is just a theory. If she wants to see you within 24 hours and she turns down the initial proposal, she will probably offer a counter time of some sort. If she doesnt counter, open up your time frame. If that doesnt work, see above

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    Default Re: 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    HB: I Tripped
    PUA: (hands on her waist) I slipped

    Then fuck the bathroom, I'll wait until I n-close, then piss myself.

    If she worth it, if not " how was it" and look away

    Want to keep her engaged and still drain the main vien:
    " we'll hello there, why don't you trip over to bar (give cash) and buy us both a drink while I deal with an issue that needs attending too"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    I like the drink thing. Smart girl replied only "haha whoa whoa" last night. I'm thinking I'll just try talking to her Monday or Tuesday. Text hardly works for me though, and even less when it's not right away. What could I do better?

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    Default Re: 11/09 Club help and text help day after

    We have a Pua Allstar by the name of T-mal on the site. He is great with texting hint hint. Also there are a few threads on here that are great.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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