My buddy and I went to our favorite club last night. As soon as we walked in, bee-lining for the restroom, a gorgeous blonde actually just grabbed me and pulled me in. She was with two friends and came on strong. I really had to piss though, so I was still facing the bathroom and trying to edge off, then she said, "I tripped," and I'm like uh huh lol. I just told her I had to use the restroom and gave a sign like maybe I'd be back. By the time I got back though, she and her friends were with three other dudes. We waited a while thinking they'd blow them off but it never happened. How should I have kept her hooked despite having to piss myself?
Anyway, I wasn't too concerned with them. There would be other girls, and there were. We grabbed a drink and went back upstairs and two were there giving us clear signals. I went up and just started dancing with one. Things went really well, we vibed, I made out with her up against a wall [although she then kept saying how she's too shy to make out with me anymore]. Found out she's in her last year of a neurobiology degree or something like that, complimented her on being smart, etc.
Eventually we went outside to talk a bit and I convinced her to come grab some food with us, even though she kept saying how she had to be up early and couldn't come home with me, etc. My friend's girl agrees too, despite the fact she has a boyfriend, but for some reason his dumb ass says no. He says he just wanted to keep dancing with her but he's oblivious and dumb as bricks. It was already 1:30 so lights came on in 15 min and they bounced, after he then tried to ineptly get them to leave with us then. There's my small rant. How do I get her to ditch her friend? I guess she almost was a couple times. I did compliment her on being a good friend though.
Anyway, I got her number though, she seems into me. I feel stuck though and am not that confident with texting. I wanted to hang out today but she seemed not into it. If things go slow I think nothing is going to happen, so how do I push through this?
me: "Well hey Jenna. The bike shop must be packed today lol" [she had to work at the bike shop at 9]
Jenna: So slammed! Biking is the best in the snow. And.. this is?
Me: Haha I forgot that I was the 4th dude of the night. Your innocent shyness is just so deceptive! - Tim [another inside joke obviously; we had a fun vibe going where she was joking about picking up dudes all the time, which I believe started from her thinking I was a player lol. Later on she did ask how far I'd go in the middle of the club so I stuck my hand up her dress lol]
Her: Ohh yeah Tim! Haha I was pretty sure that was you, but I had to check before I embarrass myself. How are you doing today?
Me: Oh you know.. At some point maybe I'll make it out of bed lol. Cocoa and s'mores might help entice me.
Her: I am super jealous. I got like 4 hours of sleep, I am feeling pretty rough [I was hoping she'd bite on cocoa but ahh nothing in life is ever that easy huh]
Me: Ouch! You should get some sleep. When do you get off work?
Her: Not until 7 I have like a ten hour day. Saturdays are the worst!
Me: lol just tell them they're wasting money being open right now, go pass out for 12 hours, then come have mimosas with me tomorrow morning. [seemed like tonight was out with her talking about sleep deprivation, yeah? Should I have just held off more because of the lack of response to cocoa and smores?]
her: I wish! That does sound pretty awesome [I feel like maybe she just ignored the mimosa part... I decided to willfully interpret it as mimosas sound awesome though lol]
Me: Sounds good. Apparently S [buddy] is pretty keen on your friend. He won't stop bugging me trying to get a double date, cook dinner for everyone. [I mostly said this to confirm the date but keep convo going. I had run out of things I wanted to talk about, pretty much knew his dumb ass wasn't getting laid; his girl had a boyfriend and he didn't even get her number. Probably should've made fun of him more because, well, I did it to his face too and he threw a fit and demanded that I demand that the girl brings her friend and lets him make us dinner. lol... friends He still doesn't believe she has a boyfriend... yet I keep telling him I had to keep my girl from cockblocking him about 5 times. Coulda gotten laid if he just went to the god damn food place with us]
Her: Aw well, that probably isnt' going to work out sadly
Me: Yeah lol I know. I've been telling him as much. I'd rather hang out without them anyway.
Her: Haha yeah, for sure. Well I don't know about tomorrow but sometime soon.
At this point I've just left it. I don't know how to respond to that. I don't want to pursue her here, I don't know what else to talk about. I could just assume she means it and try to schedule again, but it seems like I'm validating her flakiness with attention if I push here. Sometime soon? What's my move?