Went out last night (sunday) to have some fun i was just out to see where im at so i knew i would get alot of info back and wouldnot get a phone number or anything like that the aim was to see what worked and to have fun nothing more so i could see what things i need to concerntrate on improving,
i wander round town for a bit looking in pub/ bar windows to see if they are busy busy = more targets (The one thing im glad my old man taught me many moons ago look for lively places lol) I find its dead virtually everywhere (Note to self sunday night isnt a great night to go out) I finally find a bar with life and wander in they are having a quiz night just my luck so buy myself a drink and chat to a couple of blokes at the bar nothing in there even remotely gets anywhere near a six. I hear from a guy that there is a strip bar near by that open so i thought what the hell might aswell have some fun and also try some of the bar routines out .So i go in (Yes i know its a bit of a cop out for openers but i needed to know what are the things im good at i know i can do openers in daytime and dont have a care in the world)
I start talking to a stripper she is an 8 decide to have some fun and do the five questions wrong routine..she falls for it so i get a free drink out of a stripper which im dead proud of to say i was stoked was an understatement(note to self this stuff works!). I carried on being cocky funny then sorta realised id started pecking and after a while i found myself validating my self to her , I did do some Kino but i got no ioi back which is ok i figured by then id probably blown it so i tried the what one thing would you change about yourself routine got nowhere so i just had a laff and had a great night out I did try the hand her my phone trick for a number but i knew that she wasnt that interested i did also throw some negs at her but should you neg somone when its one on one?
So lessons learned need to do night approaches when people are being sociable and not doing a quiz. I can do cocky funny but need to route more so its more natural.Quit if i find myself trying too hard and move on ( kinda hard in a strip bar with three strippers and me and they are only allowed to approach one at a time),Go out with friends next time i did this on my own cold turkey for a reason to see what i could do on my own to see my strengths and weaknesses etc...im pretty sure i did the right thing what do you think?