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    Default Field Report(s) - Mainly text game

    So I'm working on 4 girls currently, all very different. Ive been using different approaches with each to appeal to what I can see is their personality type, but a lot of things remain the same with all 4.

    1 - The Seductress - You might recall from another thread that I was putting in a lot of work on a Seductress who ended up being a roommate of mine. Surefire HB7. We F'ed again a few weeks back but have since mutually shut things down. I had an indication that she wanted me to fight for her due to her insecurities, but I wasn't going to overextend myself. I ended up losing a lot of interest in her, and have been Freezing Her Out for days at a time. It finally got to the point where she asked if I hated her to which I responded: "I dont have time to hate you, Ive just been putting my attention other places where its more appreciated." - This has driven her crazy! She texts me out of the blue every few days saying how she wishes I would come home (I work out of town), and sometimes I ignore it, other times I respond, carry on a RFT conversation, then split. She will still be around, but I'll be interested to see what happens when we are around each other in person.

    2 - The Free Spirit - I met this girl at work, always carried on great conversations and laughed a lot. Things escalated from emails to text game (She gave me her number without me asking), and we texted back and forth a lot. Normally pretty light, a lot of flirting, and some quality conversations on entertainment, food, and otherwise. I employ cocky funny quite a bit in my texting as well as in person. We have hung out a few times, she told me she hasnt had sex since April, but we have made out fairly passionately as well. I froze her out yesterday, and she texted me last night saying she felt something had been missing from her day, and when I didnt respond texted back saying "Oh, youre ignoring me now! I see how it is!" I've reengaged today, but being careful because I'm quite positive she could turn into a clinger, she makes a lot of future projections about things we could do together. Great girl, an HB7, but I know I have her hanging on my every word so the interest has dwindled slightly.

    3 - The Blast from the Past - This HB8 and I dated a few times last year, never even K-closed, she is very reserved and shy when it comes to these matters and confessed to me that she hasnt even dated anyone other than me since 2008. I heard from a mutual friend that she had been asking about me recently, so I texted her. This one requires a little more work than the others. We always have great conversation, but she is fairly unresponsive to any flirting or teasing, its just not in her nature. Currently we are working on meeting up (Live in different cities, on different work schedules) but it doesnt look like we will be able to arrange anything until the New Year. We text semi-daily and discuss a lot of mutual interests.

    4 - The Young Seductress - This one is my current favorite of the bunch because she is a challenge. HB9 easily. I had heard that she thought I was cute at work, so I went out of my way to go chat with her. Later that afternoon she emailed a reply to a report I had sent saying "I see youre supporting Movember", to which I replied "Whats Movember??" and threw her for a loop. Off on the right foot, made her laugh and out of her comfort zone (Guys, this is one of the biggest turnons for a lot of girls.)She immediately said I could text her if I wanted, so I gave her MY number to gauge interest. Sure enough that same evening she texted me. It's very light with us right now, a lot of push/pull from both directions, she is a tough cookie for sure! One really good line I saw here that I used with her was when I she asked me if I had a gf and I returned the question and she said she was seeing someone. I replied with "Oh Thank God I thought you were hitting on me!" and she replied "Maybe I was... " The second day, she said she wanted to come over and "cuddle" because she was cold. So I invited her to my room, and we built a ridiculous amount of tension just by using our hands (in underwear), I had her breathing heavy before I even kissed her! She spent the night with me (nothing sexual just making out and grinding), and then texted me first thing in the morning afterwards (yesterday). A lot of fun, flirty conversation, she was having a rough day so I was being fairly sweet to her. At one point she asked me if I was bipolar because I can be an ass and sweet at different times! The thing I enjoy about her is that she has an answer for everything I say, and I told her I respect that she's a tough girl, she ate it up! She asked when our next "cuddle date" would be, and I said not tonight, I have things to do, maybe tomorrow. She obviously couldn't wait for that, so she wanted me to come over last night, which I did. Much the same, we chilled and laughed for a bit, then built a lot of tension when we got in bed, but it never amounted to anything sexual. She kept saying how "bad" we were being and how fast this was progressing. I spent the night again, and she started texting me immediately this morning once again. I've been stretching out the time between my replies to not seem dependent/needy.

    Now for a summation of what I have found works for 3/4 (The Blast from the Past has some issues, so my approach with her is definitely different)

    1. ALWAYS PLAY IT COOL. No matter what a girl says, don't take offence, its difficult to tell via text if they're joking or not, always act like they are! If you seem too sensitive to a woman, they will not stick around!
    2. PUSH/PULL/PUSH/PULL, etc. Don't be shy to tease her, its fun, flirty, and a perfectly placed emoticon will surely put a real one on hers. There is nothing wrong with showing a girl youre sweet and showing your interest, but at the same time keep them on their toes! If they know they've won, you're done!
    3. Use laughter to build emotion. Its no secret that funny guys get girls, and that laughter releases endorphins in people. If you can put a smile on a girls face when she is having a bad day, she will feel a connection to you like a drug.

    Obviously the goal with all 4 of these girls is F-close, only 1/4 has been achieved thus far. 1,3, and 4 have LTR potential for me, but I'm not working toward that right now.

    Looking forward to keeping you guys updated!

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    Default Re: Field Report(s) - Mainly text game

    So I managed to F-close #4 last night, and here's how. Yesterday was filled with a bunch of playful flirting, and some teasing from both sides. I managed to get her talking about some personal beliefs and values, still keeping it fairly light, but rewarding her for opening up to me. This girl previously had confidence issues, and it seems like she is just now blossoming into a strong willed girl. I told her a few times that I respected her attitude, or the decisions she had made, etc. She was very receptive to that. She has been asking me personal questions (ie. are you religious, how important is family to you, etc.) and I've been answering honestly and unapologetically, which I think she likes. Near the end of the day, she asked what I was doing, and I told her I was inviting her over for another "snuggle". She preferred her place, so I headed over. We laid in bed and had some fun conversation, she told me a fairly personal story and said that it was not something she normally told people. I was curious as to why she told me, and she said "I'm ok with telling people who are going to be part of my life" (Ed. Note: WHAAAT?). Long story short, we ended up Fing and I spent the night. In the morning I pulled her in for a moment, gave her a firm kiss on the cheek, and said have a nice day. (She has a bf so right now we are just FWB)
    She started texting me first thing in the morning. We chatted a bit today, some light flirting, nothing major.

    So here's the interesting part: We have a mutual friend that I just found out she has been talking to about this. She started off telling her this morning that it was great to have a FWB, then how it was nice to F me and not have any feelings (Im calling BS on that one).

    She was leaving town today for the weekend, so I took the opportunity to shut the convo down on my terms.

    Me: K I gotta run, have an awesome weekend...you deserve it!
    Her: Awwe thanks! You too
    Me: Will do...Keep smiling, it suits you
    Her: Always

    I figured letting her know I had no intentions of talking to her over the weekend would show a lack of neediness, but at the same time remind her that I make her laugh and smile, so if things go south with the bf this weekend she will think of me. I have no intentions of initiating any contact for the next 4-5 days. I really think that her comments to our mutual friend are self-denial, but who knows maybe she is that cool.

    Either way, Im getting laid by her so I'm happy. In the thrill of the chase though I won't be satisfied until I can get her attached, this has been a sticking point for me in the past.

    Anyone wanna weigh in on anything in this post or the previous? I'll do running updates on all these girls so input is always appreciated

    Prodigy

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    Prodigy84 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Field Report(s) - Mainly text game

    So a few days have past since my last update, here goes:

    #1: This girl has gone insane! She texted me a few times over the course of the week, just some friendly convo, I'm not really interested in pursuing anything further with her, but we do live in the same house so I'm trying to keep it civil. She offended me with some negativity, and I told her that it was NOT okay. She blew up on me saying that I can't just dismiss her and she refused to be "like other girls you've lost interest in". I told her that my friendship wasn't automatic, and I guess we would find out if we are cut out to be friends. She is PISSED. Avoiding all contact with her for a few days.

    2. The Free Spirit - Clinger Alert Level 5. She texted me a few days ago saying she really likes me, and doesn't like to share. She's been doing a lot of future forecasting, things she wants us to do together in the future. Also told me she told her mom about me. I'm freaked out. I'm still chatting with her, but I'm getting pretty close to cutting her loose before she gets too attached.

    3. The Blast from the Past. The more I think about it, the more boring I find this girl. We have a ton in common, but she's just not overly exciting. We've chatted briefly over the past week but nothing extraordinary. I'm gone NC right now, will probably reignite conversation in a few weeks when we are actually able to see one another. Carrying on as text buddies for the next month doesn't interest me.

    4. So on Wednesday I told her to go enjoy her weekend, definitely coming across as non-needy. There has been no communication back and forth, and today is Sunday. I'm not going to text or call her as she is probably with her bf. This girl is actually cool, has a lot going for her. My strategy right now is to play it cool, and continue myself as a FB. If we do spend more time together (ie. pillow talk) I'll start to stroke her emotions with emotionally charged questions, while still maintaining fun chats throughout the work day. I think this is the best strategy to get her to start thinking about things. There's LTR potential there, but I'm sure as hell not going to bring it up and ruin a potential FB situation. My thoughts are if I continue dhv, being cool and non-needy, she will come around. If not, I can maintain a super hot discrete FB.

    I think its time to work a few more into the rotation!

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    Default Re: Field Report(s) - Mainly text game

    So had dealings with 1 and 4 in the past 24 hours...let's review:

    1 - called me yesterday, she wanted to talk before I got home about our "situation". We chatted briefly, but as soon as I started being nice to her she started telling me off again, about how I think I'm better than other people and am ignorant to other people's feelings. I basically told her that no, I do not give a shit what other people think, including her. Then I pulled a little and told her we'd be doing something for her bday this weekend.

    4 - She initiated conversation with me first thing this morning after returning to work. Flirted a bit via text, then had this series:
    Me: That's it, we're in a fight again
    Her: You are going down
    Me: It's on! Tonight, 8:06pm, Room XXX, Bring it!
    Her: haha too tired...
    Her: I do want to hear about your girl drama though
    Me: Ok let's take a raincheck on the fight part
    Her: I have to be honest with you, things have progressed a bit with the guy I'm seeing and it's not fair for me to keep "doing things" with you lol although I still do want to be friend and we can watch movies! We just have to be good
    Me: Good for you! No worries, I'm always good
    Her: Thanks, you really are such a greatttt guy!!
    Me: I know, but thank you
    Her: soooo movie tonight?

    Of course, I've been "the other guy" since we met, and that's fine. I think its a good opportunity to run Xavier's BF Destroyer technique, haven't had a chance to do that yet. My plan is to tell her a story about Girl #1, then ask about her guy. Then reciprocate with whatever technique from the BF Destroyer works. I think my handling of the situation was already in line with my usual self, and to be honest it really didn't bother me (other than the fact that I might be deprived of sex with a super hottie).

    Any suggestions??


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