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    Talking Vecen's field report numero dos

    This is a quick ten minute interaction I had with an HB 7.5. Rather than last time when I set my expectations unreasonably high I dialed it back a bit. (from farking her brains out and her roommates to just improving my game)

    This time I focused only on improving my game in various parts.

    THE TEXT GAME
    Me: "Quick! Dragons or ogres?"
    HB: "Dragons!" (time to respond: 13 minutes)
    Me: "Hmm, interesting, now then, pom-poms or mums?" (time to respond: 5 minutes)
    HB: "Mums." (time to respond: 50 minutes)
    Me: "Ok one last question, (hope u can get it) 10 or 11?" (time to respond: 10 minutes)
    HB: "as in like time?" (Time to respond: 5 minutes)
    Me: "Youll find out soon ;P" (time to respond: 3 minutes)
    HB: 10 lol (time to respond: 5 minutes)

    THE APPROACH
    I come over to her dorm with a backpack, inside which carries some dragon figures, and a mum. I text her to open the door, and she does so immediately.
    HB:
    HB "hey [my name] what do you have with you?"
    Me: "Its a secret! Lets go to your dorm. I was planning on teleporting straight to it but all the teleporter traffic was awful!" [she giggles]
    HB: "Well I have an essay I need to right tonight, so I don't have much time"
    Me: "ok" [I immediately begin to head toward her dorm, she follows]
    HB: [at door] "seriously whats in the bag???"
    Me: "your about to find out!"

    We enter the dorm and go to her bead. I sit down on the carpet facing her, as she begins to sit I reveal the dragon and mum.

    Me: "ok we are going to do a quick roleplaying game! We will each be a dragon, and we are trying to go after the mum!"
    HB: "lol ok!"
    She sets a 10 minute timer and says that's all the time she has before she needs to work on her essay.

    We begin playing. I mostly give her a quick prompt or two and then asks what she does or how she feels about it. She replies positively in all cases.

    I finally allow her to reach the mum, at which case I put my dragon in front of it and say: "You must now pass the final test!"

    I run the cube on her. She gets excited as to what it means and then I explain to her. Her reactions are a mix of "lol hes not right ;P" and "holy cow that's right!"

    After I explain I pack up and begin to leave, and she helps me. As I leave the room, she says "wait let me walk you down." We walk to the end of the hallway, during which
    Me: "this was fun! lets do it tommorrow!"
    HB: "I'm going to be busy though...saying goodbye to all my friends and stuff [thanksgiving break is finally here!!! woo-hoo! but we will be leaving for the time being]
    Me: "oh c'mon..." [at this point I remember to Kino and I playfully nudge her arm with my hand]
    HB: [giggles]
    HB: "well bye [my name]" [she extends hand for a brofist, something I am known for]
    Me: "we can do better than that!" [I give her a hug, she complies, but it is not a full frontal hug].

    Known errors in the whole interaction: I was going to throw out a playful disqualifying line, but right before I did my oh so helpful subconscious threw out micro fear and the moment was lost.

    I believe that this could have been much better, yet I feel that overall it was a success (seeing as how I have been doing this for less than a month)

    As per usual, a sacrifice to the feedback gods is always appreciated
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    Default Re: Vecen's field report numero dos

    Quote Originally Posted by Vecen View Post
    This is a quick ten minute interaction I had with an HB 7.5. Rather than last time when I set my expectations unreasonably high I dialed it back a bit. (from farking her brains out and her roommates to just improving my game)

    Yes. This ^ us the mindset to have. Sarge to improve your game from beginning to end, run the best game you can, and the closes will come. Pun intended.

    This time I focused only on improving my game in various parts.

    THE TEXT GAME
    Me: "Quick! Dragons or ogres?"
    HB: "Dragons!" (time to respond: 13 minutes)
    Me: "Hmm, interesting, now then, pom-poms or mums?" (time to respond: 5 minutes)
    HB: "Mums." (time to respond: 50 minutes)
    Me: "Ok one last question, (hope u can get it) 10 or 11?" (time to respond: 10 minutes)
    HB: "as in like time?" (Time to respond: 5 minutes)
    Me: "Youll find out soon ;P" (time to respond: 3 minutes)
    HB: 10 lol (time to respond: 5 minutes)

    I'm gonna take this ^ and try it in a modified form. :P

    THE APPROACH
    I come over to her dorm with a backpack, inside which carries some dragon figures, and a mum. I text her to open the door, and she does so immediately.
    HB:
    HB "hey [my name] what do you have with you?"
    Me: "Its a secret! Lets go to your dorm. I was planning on teleporting straight to it but all the teleporter traffic was awful!" [she giggles]
    HB: "Well I have an essay I need to right tonight, so I don't have much time"
    Me: "ok" [I immediately begin to head toward her dorm, she follows]
    HB: [at door] "seriously whats in the bag???"
    Me: "your about to find out!"

    Nice, nice, keeping the mystique.

    We enter the dorm and go to her bead. I sit down on the carpet facing her, as she begins to sit I reveal the dragon and mum.

    Next time sit on the bed as if she had offered you to do so. It will feel like you're intruding, but that's part of the game and part of the whole dynamic.

    Me: "ok we are going to do a quick roleplaying game! We will each be a dragon, and we are trying to go after the mum!"
    HB: "lol ok!"
    She sets a 10 minute timer and says that's all the time she has before she needs to work on her essay.

    We begin playing. I mostly give her a quick prompt or two and then asks what she does or how she feels about it. She replies positively in all cases.

    I like this game idea... there's NLP potential here... but more on that later. Focus on improving your game for now (NLP comes off as creepy if you're not uber calibrated)

    I finally allow her to reach the mum, at which case I put my dragon in front of it and say: "You must now pass the final test!"

    I run the cube on her. Nice stacking! She gets excited as to what it means and then I explain to her. Her reactions are a mix of "lol hes not right ;P" and "holy cow that's right!"

    After I explain I pack up and begin to leave, and she helps me. As I leave the room, she says "wait let me walk you down." Nice, that;s an IOI We walk to the end of the hallway, during which
    Me: "this was fun! lets do it tommorrow!" "this was fun" is good, after that you gave her an IOI "let's hang tomorrow!" which works at this point in the game (comfort), you could also go with a dhv (like "oh snap, I going to the [some local attraction] next week when all the classes are out") or a Neg ("maybe next time I'll let you be the winning piece ") or a DSQ (standard disqualifier is "this was fun, too bad I'm gay, you almost seem like my type")
    HB: "I'm going to be busy though...saying goodbye to all my friends and stuff [thanksgiving break is finally here!!! woo-hoo! but we will be leaving for the time being] ...That's an IOD...
    Me: "oh c'mon..." [at this point I remember to kino and I playfully nudge her arm with my hand] ...That's an IOI, but after her IOD it should have been a Neg or a DSQ or at least an IOD stronger than hers...
    HB: [giggles]
    HB: "well bye [my name]" [she extends hand for a brofist, something I am known for]
    Me: "we can do better than that!" [I give her a hug, she complies, but it is not a full frontal hug].

    Known errors in the whole interaction: I was going to throw out a playful disqualifying line, but right before I did my oh so helpful subconscious threw out micro fear and the moment was lost.

    I believe that this could have been much better, yet I feel that overall it was a success (seeing as how I have been doing this for less than a month)

    As per usual, a sacrifice to the feedback gods is always appreciated
    Just my take, I'm sure I missed some points though. Who's next!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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