So I have been reading tons in here and learning so many new things. You guys are truly an inspiration. I wanted to give me field report from this Friday night in hope to get some feedback/critique, tips, whatever.
I am fairly new to the PUA community, although I believe I did some things naturally previous to this. My main problems are the Approach (some fear, I admit it) and the Sh1t tests! However I think I overcame these well this time around.
Setting: Friday Night, Club/Lounge
Results: Opened numerous sets (Some I did well, others not so well). To be honest this really helped my confidence. I think I must have opened around 15 sets the whole night, and I got in the door and conversation in all of them, I just failed to transition.
Number Closed : 4 targets...HB7, HB 7, HB8, and HB10
K-Closed : HB-8
Minor details: I am sporting a Movember look. Dress was casual, but stylish. Wing man was AFC....He would leave me hanging which is okay, but I could have used some diversions from him when opening the sets.
What stood out:
Set: 2 girls, HB7 and HB 8. I approach with a confident smile, my friend follows behind me scared.
Me: You girls really need to lighten up and have some fun. Smile a bit, it's Friday. (They smiled)...before they had a chance to respond I said
"We need a female opinion, what do girls prefer beard or clean shaven" THey said it depended on the guy, etc.
I talked to the HB 7 (non target and started some KINO and put her hand on my beard) I said "Looks are important, but it is also the feel..."
then HB8 (target) says "Ohhhh, let me touch..." I used a canned "Hands off he merchandise...does she always interrupt you like that?
HB8 smacks my arm and calls me a jerk with a huge smile on her face. I did the best friend routine and shampoo, and asked what they were drinking....they told me and I said, "Well, I am going to go join some friends, but if you're lucky when I come back I will let you buy me one"
HB8 asks for my name, I made eye contact and just smiled at her. I could swear she probably was ready to kiss then. But I wanted to leave her hanging for a bit and open more sets... (mistake?)
So I proceed, talk to more girls. Just wanted to have fun and give the alpha vibe. Even though I didn't score in all sets I felt comfortable and everyone was laughing, etc. I think I could have converted more if I had more experience and support.
About an hour later HB8 returns with her friend, I grab her hand and tell her I am a mind reader. I said to her confidently "I bet you came back for a kiss" she said "You wish". I said "I never said you could" Then used "Beauty is common, tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to stay here and talk to you"....She listed a bunch of BS. Grabbed her hand and walked her to a couch. I looked her in the eye I said "Are you good working an iPhone?" Gave it to her, she knew what to do. Also she called her own # so she would have it (don't know what that means) After a little more push pull, I looked her in the eyes again and used a line I read in this forum (sorry forgot the name ) Are you a risk taker? She said yes. So am I (Kissed). Made out for a bit. I didn't feel the PDA and then her friend said they had to leave ...What should I have done? Things were getting heated up I could have F-Closed I think. Also she mentioned that her friend would drop her off because her friend lived far (seemed like an invite? I don't know it was WAY before the kiss and # close?) What should I have done?
2nd Case: HB 10
Don't wan to make this longer. OUTSIDE THE CLUB AFTER 3am Appraoched when the 2 set was standing next to us. I was extra confident. Asked for the beard opinion and Spikey hair routine. Focused on the friend an HB6 maybe 7. Asked her to touch my hair. Boom like expected HB10 wanted to touch. I said "I wasn't asking for your opinion" (Huge smile) She was really mouthy but flirty right off the bat. Her friend went to get a hot dog and she asks "So can i feel your hair now"? I said to my friend..."Wow this one is persistant" I did the "beauty is common line again" while grabbing her hand she complied. Then I said "okay just because you're a good girl" and pointed at my hair. She touched complimented and said it would look better messy (so she messed it up) I acted like "Wow, you just crossed the line. We're done talking" (while smiling) She went to join her friend. Came back a minute later
Me: "I was just telling him you'd come back for more"
Her:" More of what"
She smiled. Then I said " I am a psychic. When did your boyfriend dump you?" She called me an asshole but was really flirty after. She said how did you know he dumped me..."Experience" Her friend came back. I asked "I think she is a much better kisser out of the 2 (while pointing at the friend) I went and asked the friend for a kiss and HB10 kissed me in the cheek. Her friend said "You have good game but we have to go now" (Cab was waiting) I kind of froze. Asked HB10 if she knew how to work an iPhone line again. She said no but gave me her #....
So, I did not F close but I feel I made progress. I felt I had HB10 dying for me. How could I have closed better? I mean they are clearly not expecting a text. But I know I could have done better.