Dreyper's scout game field report
Hello again, Dreyper here.
This is field report for my super basic, yet effective Number Close. I am coining this method "scout game" because it takes time, observation, and patience. Its great for shy people (though I am not shy). It is also great for cold approaches because it builds rapport not at once, but over time. The result is a much a more effective connection than could result from say a 5 minute conversation. If you think of it this way, the first step for many pua gurus is that typical stage one rapport building basic stuff. If you intensify this first step, the phase shift to the next step will be easier. It also gives you a leg up over your competition because you just did the first step better than anyone else. The resulting comfort level will be much greater.
Scout game obviously won't work for girls you run in to at random. It only works for girls who you run in to regularly. For example there is a cute girl who works at the place where I drop off my dry cleaning. I see her every once in a while so I game her, subtly, every time I see her. I use basic openers and casual conversation pieces. Humor, confident body language, eye contact, subtle dhv methods, trolling, PERSONALITY MIRRORING etc etc...
I number closed over only 2 meetings. I dropped my dry cleaning off and noticed she had an accent. We talked about where she was from (hungary). Places she travelled to. Places I travelled to (DHV). I built a connection...then took off. This is powerful. It shows you are not needy. You hold the cards. You have power and are unaffected by her beauty.
I built rapport the first meeting. I did it again the second meeting. I did everything over again, a different way with different lines. I built upon the foundation I laid.
The funny part of this story is that she ended up losing my dry cleaning. (4 tailored $90 shirts). What do alpha males do best? They keep their cool. They are in control of their emotions. I admittedly was nervous but my first reaction was humor. I busted her balls a little bit. Big smile. "It happens to the best of us" type of attitude. Stage one complete...in full...the number close was easy after this.
"Are you familiar with the area? No? Well downtown has a great vibe. Its lots of fun. I'll show you around sometime. We should exchange numbers." (notice I didn't ask).
When you put the time in, the number close is the easiest step.
"Put in more than you can ever get out"