My first field report as a aspiring PUA. Last night I decided my goal would be to just handle my aa. Overall I think it was a success but I could of done better.
Im really self conscious about my height even though I'm not really like terribly short, I'm taller than most women but shorter than most men I'm about 5'7 or 5'8. So last night I dressed really well in my terms and felt really comfortable with how I looked (expensive long sleeve shirt and nice dark jeans) I also wore some nice boots and put in some 2'' elevator insoles...terribly uncomfortable but was worth it because I was standing at about 5'11 since the boots also added about an inch of height.
This was not at a trendy club or anything which is what I prefer but decided to go to this one because it was the busiest in town...they let in 18-20 year old's and then there is the 21 and up plus like an older crowd of 30+ yea weird...it's not even a club it's a saloon but anyways I digress
My first mistake was going alone...no social proof. But I had too because I'm at a Uni across the country from where I'm from and everyone went home for thanksgiving holiday so I had no friends in town to go out with. For about 30 mins I was just walking around the venue like an AFC looking at girl's I might approach but AA always came in. I then befriended a guy that was there alone...well actually not he was waiting for his friends who were in line...but he was super cool and knew a lot of people...We were both latinos in a predominantly white club so we kinda just clicked because of that. He knew a group of about 5 girls that were all really cute and he introduced me to them and said I was his cousin LOL the girls seemed to like me and I was instantly in a crowd of 5 girls and tow guys and now we had a table so I felt I had much more social proof. After that my confidence sky rocketed and I went to get my third beer. While I was waiting in line behind the hottest girl waiting...on purpose of course another lady part of that older crowd taps on me on the shoulder and even though older she seemed pretty sexy to be honest maybe a 7.5 or 8 sexy cougar looking blond
HB7: are you waiting for a drink
me: yes...so tell me are you part of the 18-20 crowd
HB7: Oh haha no sweetie (while grabbing my arm)....im 34
me: So whats your name
HB7: Im courtney
me: Im Enrique we shake hands..then I proceed to get my drink
and thats it....I went blank and did not know what else to talk about I really could of had a f-close with her she seemed DTF then I did not see here the rest of the night. At that point I went back with my new buddy and all the girls had left and to dance and there was some other dude there he introduced me and then I didn't wanna seem like an AFC again and now with two other dudes. So I went to the dance floor...and just stood there like an AFC looking at the hotties my beer was like half empty and I made a rule to myself...I will approach a HB before I finish this beer and I did. it was a two set of HB7.5 dancing one had a guy dancing with her and I approached the other one and started dancing after about two songs of heavy grinding and really sexy dancing of her the music changed tone to something slower and I asked her what her name was. Her friend cock blocked me and said they were lesbians...I didn't know what to say and I just said "how many girlfriends do you girls have" she said just us...I said o well thats no fun..and she told me to 'Fark OFF' my AFC came in and I walked away...but tried acting cool about it. So then I chugged the rest of my beer and went to get another one. This was going to be my last beer so made a new rule approach a girl before you sip this beer. I approached the HB7 first because I thought they would be easier than HB8,9 and 10s but I was like fark it and went for the hottest chicks this time. I spotted to supper hotties probably 9's while I was going to go approach them some other two dudes beat me and I just waited till they finished then I approached htem and they gave me that bitchy look and told me they were lesbians...(second time in one night....is that just a popular comeback...wtf) I asked them the same thing (how many girlfriend) and they just ignored me and I left. Then I approached two more girls who weren't dancing..nothing special just small talk.
After that the club was about to close so I left because I was starving...I went to a popular after bars grub joint that was packed... I met a super hottie there like a 8.5 and she actually approached me...well she was in line in front of me with another girl and two guys..we had some small talk. Whats your name and stuff like that and then her guy friend cock blocked me and kind took here back into the crowd they were in. I ordered my food then saw here again and asked if she was single...she acted bitchy now and said yea and pointed to her guy friend at this point I think she really did have a BF and was just drunk when she first approached me....
well whatever then I eat my food and leave...theres is still tons of people outside from the bars and I met another girl she was also like a HB9. I didn't know how to approach and I just walked behind her like a creep 'face slap' but she seemed cool...guess what I asked..'do you know if Taco Bell is still open' lmao but she was friendly and said yea..and I knew it was but anyways then I asked if
me: do you go here
hb9; yea. do you
me; yea what are you studying ( I know AFC talk...but im a beginner)
hb9; English and you
me; international business
hb9; OMG so do you know other languages
me: Yes im fluent in English and Spanish and currently in 300 level French classes.
hb9: o wow...you should learn Portuguese im in portuguese 102
me: I say stuff to her in Portuguese and she seems to be overwhelmed lol (at this point taco bell cock blocked me because we had walked to the point I was right in front)
HB9: well I guess I will let you go...your at your destination and I'm really close to my apartment now.
me: lol I just wanted to use the restroom, do you wanna hang out..
hb9: no sorry im going home tomorrow really early in the morning my dad is picking me up
me: ok well you seem like a super cool girl...whats your number
hb9: she gives me her number...
me: then I wright a little note about her (sasha day game style) I make fun of her and say out loud 'cute girl who knows Portuguese...but actually sucks at it.
She slaps me playfully for saying that and then we hug and go about our own ways.
Ok so I did not F-Close but had one N-close and think this night really helped me and I learned so much from that than watching youtube videos and reading forums but any advice would be awesome