Hi guys, so since I have started this PUA journey a lot of things have changed. There is SO much information and different approaches that it can be overwhelming for a newbie. Now in the past I had serious holes in my game that I have corrected or I am in the process or correcting.
My advice to anyone reading this is to keep pursuing and to stick to it. If there is ANYTHING I have learned is that Inner Game is the most important foundation to have. If your inner game is solid, the rest will follow. I remember reading on this forum from a contributor saying that girls test for congruency, and from my experience nothing could be more true. You need to feel ALPHA in order to be able to portray that image. No matter how many openers you know, or how good your negs are if your inner game is not solid, girls will get that 'weird' vibe off you and they will put their defenses up. Also, I have found that it doesn't really matter how you open, again body language and confidence are more important. I feel like I have already written too much.
HB 8.5- Setting -College Library
I make the effort to walk around confidently and strongly. In my library there are private group rooms which you can reserve. They are usually busy as fark this time of the year so I always try to arrive early. I get to the library early, I spot a beautiful HB8.5 as I walk in. She is checking something on the computer but glances over, I maintain eye contact and just smiled. She smiled back and I kept walking towards the study rooms. I am lucky enough to find a room with no people, I take over it. A few minutes go by, I see this girl walking by. Looks like she's trying to find a place to study. We make eye contact. She walks off then comes back and opens the door.
HB: Are you expecting more people?
ME: Oh come on, you can't make it that obvious (SMILE)
ME: You're clearly following me. It's okay, I am used to it.
HB: Nooooooo (she giggled) I just can't study in the cublicles....it gets so busy...(or whatever I dont exactly remember)
ME: Well don't you move fast. smile. Told her my name . So we're not strangers anymore. She told me her my name. (At this point she was already sitting in my table)
ME: Well just so you know I am having a group session with a couple of lucky ladies later on. So you're gonna have to leave when I say so. (This was a lie, no one was coming lol, was trying to show dhv)
HB: Confused look on her face. She asks which class I am studying for
ME: Ok shush, less flirting more studying. I am serious here (SMILE) (Tried to control the frame, and show that I wasn't interested which in turn made her more interested I assume. She giggled when I said it)
HB; Okay then. Even more confused.
I actually shut up and started reading. About 5 minutes go by and she's complaining about how hard it is. She is mad flirting at this point, smiling, hair touching, the works. I knew I had to start Kino. But she was across from me, so I didn't feel comfortable reaching across with my hands to touch her. So I maintained alpha bod language, leaned back. After some fluffling and flirting I lightly kicked her LOL (I know, I am still a newbie)
HB: Giggling- What was that for?
ME: What was what?
HB kicks me and laughs.
ME:what are we playing footsies now? You're doing it completely wrong.
HB: I am an expert, (her shoes were off she rubs my shin with her foot)
ME: Hardly. I think you're just trying to seduce me.
ME: Not working darling. (Haha it was on for her now)
I honestly worked on her pretty much the entire day. Kino, I went to grab a bite, she joined. I told her my ladies had flaked, and that I hated flakes so they wouldn't be eligible for my company in the future. She said she WOULD NEVER FLAKE on me. (lol it was on)
Okay this is getting too long. But I found out she lives on residence (she told me, I took this as an IOI). After a bit more studying she was stressed. I walked over gave her a massage. I could swear she was having an orgasm. I wanted to switch places so I told her I was sick of this place and I was leaving. I said I would walk her to her place in exchange of a drink. She accepted. Roomates were gone, more kino. 1 drink, lots of flirting on the couch. Made deep eye contact and K-closed.
Told her my massages were meant to be received in bed. Went to her bed and the rest is history.
Sorry for the length but this is important to me since I f-closed the day of. She is a cool girl. Hot. I think I had an unfair advantage in that I did have almost all day to work the set, which it is not common. But I went through all the stages. It was a great learning experience and rewarding. I think what did it for me was inner game. I just took control and didn't show much interest until SHE was interested.
Thanks for reading. Critique/feedback is always appreciated.