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    Default She has huge self confidence issues

    So there is this HB7 I've seen around my school that rides the bus I ride (I don't ride the bus often at all. Today was maybe my third or fourth time). SO I decided to chat her up, opened about her math homework (since it was out), and talked about a whole bunch of things. I saw her giving me IOIs such as looking at me, etc.

    The thing is, she always puts herself down. "I'm weird", "sorry", and those types of phrases are constantly apparent in her vocabulary and diction. I feel like I have a much higher value than her, but I still like her and want to help her. With her, I feel like my goal isn't straight out making out, but it would be nice.

    How do I approach this? Do I compliment her constantly? She is really insecure of herself, and I'm quite sure shes already attracted to me. I built some comfort on the bus, and shes interesting and has a lot of things to talk about, but has no self confidence.

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    Default Re: She has huge self confidence issues

    look you don't need to compliment her very much or use negs or any of that stuff, you already have a superior social value to her, all you need to do is flirt with her and joke around, if she becomes insecure about something tease her about it, just always back off if she gets offended or anything like that. give her a few ioi's (as a reward for her dhv"ing to you) and then use cat theory to do the rest of the hard work, she'll be easy to game in the early stages, but i would lay off on the Kino (too much will tip her off) by using subtle kino (light touches on the wrist/shoulders) the shear fact that you flirt with her will be a huge confidence boost for her, and as long as you maintain that you are more valuable than her, you should be able to reel her in

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    Default Re: She has huge self confidence issues

    Eh I feel like she hasn't really done much with guys though. If I tease her, she might take it a little too seriously. And the whole essence of flirting is with teasing, no? How do you flirt without teasing? Just being funny and naughty and playful?

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    Default Re: She has huge self confidence issues

    you are thinking way tooo much!! just tease her just like any other girl, then calibrate once you figure out what kinds of things make her laugh, then you just make her laugh every time you see her and give some Kino and false disqualifiers. you'll find that shy/introverted girls are way easier to game once you get past initial defences


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