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    Default College Buddies Meetup at Bar and Concert

    My college roommates and I met up for a concert in Philly recently. They brought both female and male friends with them. To kill time we drank and danced for a few hours at a nearby bar until the show started. I figured I'd play it cool and focus more on my friends than worrying about picking up which is what I want to do since i haven't seen them in 2 years.

    Out of nowhere my buddy throws me into a dance session with this beautiful girl saying that he thinks shes into me. While we're dancing I talk to her trying to get to know her with the usual boring questions where you're from, what do you do...I wasn't sure what else to do cause that's what I used all my life. I'm still new to the game. We keep dancing and she eventually gets on stage to dance more. I'm not really a good dancer so I just got back to my friends which were nearby anyway. They kept telling me to get on stage with her but I had my back turned and wasn't really too worried about it. I wanted to try and play it cool, not being all over her, figuring she would come back to me eventually if she was interested (think of it as a test). Her friend didn't seem to be having a good time either, but I saw them sit down at a table for a short while and leaving the bar to go somewhere else. I think she was interested but maybe I didn't try to close or jump at the opportunity. She might of thought I wasn't interested. Not really sure cause I find it difficult to read ioi's and women in general lol.

    I could use some help and pointers to improve my game. What did I do wrong in your views? Did I do anything right? Thanks for taking the time to read.

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    Default Re: College Buddies Meetup at Bar and Concert

    You didn't keep her interested. She may have had some small initial attraction, but you didn't capitalize on it. And she got bored and left. I'm not saying don't try the Takeaway/Freeze Out, just do it once you've got her hooked, not before.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: College Buddies Meetup at Bar and Concert

    I concur with bandit. You didn't hook her. And When the situation wasn't going well, you didn't take any initiative.

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    Default Re: College Buddies Meetup at Bar and Concert

    I see what you guys are saying. This is good stuff. Appreciate the pointers and I look forward to improving my game.


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