Well guys.. I have taken this new approach to PUG. I call it leveling up.
I am very AFC.. admittedly. Well I wouldn't say my attitude is AFC, I just tend to get aa.
Anyways this weekend I leveled up.
Long story short......
I have leveled up in frame control and inner game. I have learned to AMOG with men and women in large groups of friends, leaving women begging for approval.
Here's my one example for the day:
Weekend party, walked up and started dancing with group of 6 girls, all very attractive and older than me, one of which I knew. Chatted up the one I knew a little bit, negged her friends for being boring and being shy dancers to which one girl (HB8) ran up behind me oh my gosh you look like so and so (famous person), to which I replied by putting on my sunglass giving a head nod and pulling her in to dancing with me. After dancing for a while with the group/chatting small talk, it was loud and couldn't talk much so I left to meet some other girls.
Long story short, saw the same girl again on campus today. I was talking with a good friend of mind when I saw her right as she walked by and said hey wait a second, to which she turned around, made eye contact, turned back around in a shy manner.
ME: "How'd you know my name?" (referring to her calling me so and so famous person).
HER: "Wait what, I didn't know your name! Well I kinda did."
ME: "Wait, what do you mean? Aren't you the girl running up calling me (famous person)?"
HER: "Well yes, but I didn't actually know you're real name was..." (says my real name)
BODY LANGUAGE: embarrassed, smiling, leaning into conversation, touching face in shyness, obvious IOI
ME: "Don't be shy I was only kidding with you."
HER: "Well all my roommates are like obsessed with the fact that you look like so and so, and that you're a really good dj, so that's how I know who you are"
ME: "Wait, who are your roommates?" (Cocky funny body language)
HER: "Ohhh, I don't know if I should tell you, I don't need to stroke your ego any more... "
BLAH BLAH BLAH...
HER: "Well its really great to finally meet you after hearing so much about you." Seriously.. not sarcastic tone.
ME: "its really nice to meet you too.."
in which i SHOULD have number closed.
NOT ALPHA.. but I know I will see her again.
One step at a time right? Anyways, feeling very confident meeting women, and people in general. Huge improvement from that shy high school kid I was. Still far to go.. STILL AFC.. but on my way gentlemen. I'd say that's a level up!