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  1. #11
    Blistex is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    I gather from this that she has a boyfriend and likes you, but your kiss on her neck? Common man dancing is sensual, but you skipped some escalation with Kino. What you SHOULD have done is go in to kiss her neck, held a second with your lips barely touching and then pulled back. Have you ever had sex but no orgasm? You get the excitement but not the climax, so you want to keep going until you reach orgasm. YOU WILL have to build tension with this girl.

    I think she may be a good one, she is obviously having problems with her man and knows the relationship is on the brink of failure, but stays faithful to it despite her attraction towards you. You will have to be able to let this one go in order for you to have any chance with her. She may very well keep her boyfriend at the cost of loosing you, but its a gambit that must be undertaken to get her. I cannot really give any specific advice on what to do or how to handle it, other then to be cool, keep the kino light and fun and if it is sexual at all, it needs to be for the purpose of building tension, DO NOT break it (aka kiss her). Let her kiss you. She may or may not, once again another gambit. I think that it could also play a dhv because you will be showing her your self-restraint and at the same time that you aren't afraid to escalate, but you respect her and by default you respect her relationship. Starting to see how difficult this situation is getting?
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  2. #12
    Johnny-ist-ein-Depp is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    And this keeps going...

    I had the drawing class with her. From there I asked her for a beer and she came with me. We had a beer for an hour and chatted. After that we both went home. As I came home I logged in on FB and she was there, we spoke for at least an hour more and I actually closed the conversation because it was getting late.

    I invited her to go see a gig at a bar and she was like, I don't know, it sounds very cool, maybe, I'm without money because I have to save for a trip this weekend. I told her the entrance is free and the only thing you will have to buy is drinks and since I'm inviting you that's go on me.

    Then she replied that in this case she is coming and asked if I invited a friend of mine as well (which is her flatmate).
    This girl keeps pissing me off with this maybe behaviour. Maybe I should try run a BF destroyer on her next time!?

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    Johnny-ist-ein-Depp is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    She keeps being around too much. I'm getting afraid she will put me in the friendzone. Yesterday we went to the same class because she called me asking if she can join me. Today I'm gonna go out with her again for a gig I invited her. She told me she might want to do a sushi with her flatmates and asked me if I'm free on the weekend.

    I don't know what to do! Please help!

  4. #14
    Johnny-ist-ein-Depp is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    ****** UPDATE ********

    She broke up this week with her bf. I don't know if I should give her time or if I should start asking her out. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    I'm not that good in this thing... but if it was me i would probably give her a week or so, then go out with her, see her state (depressed, happy, etc.) with respect of her bf, i she seems ok, then you may be the reason she broke with him, test the waters and if you can sail, go for the kill

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    Johnny-ist-ein-Depp is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's up with this girl

    I don't think I'm the reason for it. I think that she was having problems on the relationship already. I think that since I was around she probably found me interesting. Problem is that there are other concurrents on her. I know that she is doing dancing classes and I saw the teacher on the xmas party and the girl is really making pressure. I have to find out a way of handling this without looking needy. Any sugestions will be highly appreciated it.


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