I'm sorry if the text is too long, but I have to detail everything so things would be understandable. I'm pretty much new to PUA world so pls bear my stupid mistakes. Oh and sorry for my terrible english.
I met this german girl which came with friend of mine to this pub. She is her flatmate. I must say that she is completely my type of girl and after being in London for 2 months and didn't find anyone interesting, this one really picked my attention. We're in this kind of heavy metal pub and I was actually with 7 other girls on the table. It was just me and another male friend which was actually married and with her wife with him there. Anyway, I talked to everybody on the table and sometimes with her. Slowly one by one start saying good bye and going home.
It was then just me, her and 2 other girls left. The german girl was really keen to go to another place and asked me to go as well. So this night we talked more, but nothing happened.
I picked her facebook and started contacting her. At the beginning was a small talk but later we schedule to go out she and her friends that I met the other day, to go to another bar. Few days later on she even asked me if I would like to go to a prodigy concert that tickets might still be available.
On the day that we would go to the bar, she writes me that her friends don't want to go out but that she still wants, if I still want to go out. I said yeah, sure. So instead of going out a group of people, she just came alone. Second time I ever see this girl and it is just me and her. I planned to bring her first to a bar where you can do some funny things, to kinda break the ice, play table football and some shit. Talking with her at this first bar, I asked what she would do for New Years Eve and she tells me that she will spend with her boyfriend. I was like FUUUUUUCK! But then she tells me, yeah I just see him every 2 months, and he is living in germany and don't want to come to live here and I'm in London and I don't want to go back there, so if no one will do something about it, I don't know how we will keep together. It was bit too much of information for the second time we are going out, but whatever.
From there we went to another place and then another place that she wanted to go. It was a gothic industrial party, so quite crazy people. Just we looked normal. Everybody else were looking like they were relatives of Marilyn Mason.
Anyway we drunk for awhile talked and hung up in the club. At some point it was getting really late like 3am and I was just thinking why is she still hanging around. I mean we going out was not suppose to be a date, but at this point it was looking like one and at 3am it seems that I was not that boring after all. So my head started spinning because I thought ok, she might want something more than just hang around. So I started Kino her and started to get closer to her to some extend let her know that maybe I might be interesting in something more. She didn't seem to bother at all. But at the same time I just didn't find any space to give her a kiss. So when I realized ok, maybe she doesn't want to get closer, I asked her, should we go, and she was like, no, not yet. Lets dance. So then I went to dance with her. for at least 40 min more. At some point I couldn't hold myself anymore seeing this really hot girl dancing in front of me, so I got closer to her and kissed her neck. She kind of didn't expect it and backed off and then kept dancing like nothing has happened and I did the same. So I just turned to her and asked again if she wanted to leave. And she was unsure if she wanted so, we spent at least 1 hour more at the place.
So we left the place, I brought her to her busstop and when the bus came she gave me a tight hug and left. I was like WTF was that?! I wrote her a sms to write me if she got well home. At 6am she writes me on facebook this:
"Hi ****, thank you for the nice evening. I wanted to text you but it wasn't possible anymore because i run out of credit. So i have to top up my mobil phone. Anyway i arrived well. the way home wasn't so bad and i hadn't to wate too long. Hope you had a good walk home.
I had fun, thanks for that. Next time it will be Metal music!
See you soon."
I invited her then a few days later to join me on a hiking trip on the weekend and asked her if she would like to join me on a figure drawing class (we both like drawing). She said she would be too busy these days and that the weekend she would spent with some friends which came from germany. I just thought, ok, it's over, I farked it up so I just wrote her back: Ok, enjoy your week and have fun with your friends.
Two days later for my surprise she writes me back: hey when is going to be next drawing class. Maybe I'll be able to join to the hiking. But ended up that later she called off again and said she was busy. Two weeks has passed and I didn't manage to go out with her again. We just kept some small talk on Facebook.
On this Wednesday I will probably meet her again because her flatmate invited me for a xmas party at her flat and to be completely honest I don't have a clue what to expect from this girl. I don't know how I should handle her from now on. I was thinking about bringing some small presents for my friend and her as a xmas present but I don't know if I should. And I don't know if I should keep asking her out or just forget about it.
Can you guys give me some light here?