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    Default Mall - Day Game - Need help

    Hey guys,

    First field report I've ever posted. Basically, I went to the mall near my house and gamed three girls. I know it's a low number but I only had 2 hours to spare.

    First HB was a pretty blonde who worked in an Abercrombie and Fitch store. Conversation went as follows:
    Me: Hi, I need your opinion on something. I'm thinking of getting a present for my little sister - she's 14 years old, likes conservative clothing and the color green. What would you recommend?
    HB: Sure, um, there's this, this, this. (points to a lot of different clothing) What does your sister like?
    Me: Green, no skirts, sweaters.
    HB: (She leads me across the store, etc.)

    Afterwards, when I asked for some t-shirts with cheeky lines, she recommended going to Forever 21 (in a low voice). I told her why I was getting the present (sister got her heart broken) and she empathized. We made small talk for 2 more minutes, and when I asked her whether she wanted to hang out later, she said she was busy and couldn't. Other HB's in other stores (both non-employees and employees) gave me the same reactions.

    My question is: what solid routines could I have used to pique their interest? Or maybe I have trouble escalating? I'm not sure. They did give me some ioi's and I made each of them laugh a lot. But I got a feeling that they were just being polite. I don't like the idea of running routines but I'm just starting out and I need some foundations.

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    Default Re: Mall - Day Game - Need help

    Probably add some direct/daygame component to your opener, could help a bit.

    I wouldnt explain why you are getting the gift. If the target asks use it as part of a dhv story.

    IMO, just pull the parts from routines you like, eventually with calibration they will no longer be viewed as routines but you're own approach style

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    Default Re: Mall - Day Game - Need help

    She works in a clothing store. Try and guess how many guys try to pick her up by asking her opinion on clothes for their sisters, cousins, or mothers.

    Most women can see a guy trying to hit on them a mile away. This is why the "disqualifier"wa s created. It shows that you are not necessarily interested in her. Which lowers her defenses and opens her up for you to be able to hit on her effectively. Study Mystery Method beings that it explains all of this.

    Also having small talk does not warrant a meet up date. If a woman did that after every small talk she would always be going on dates. Several a day! So be different.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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