Re: on the dance floor...blow out vs. success
Dance floors are NOT a trap. It's the same thing as anything else. You just have to practice and learn the best ways to approach it. I'm speaking from extensive experience. How did you ask her friend to dance?
Also you don't need any special moves, like break dancing. Then you just become a dancing monkey. Yea the girl's will love the show, but that doesn't guarantee they will go home with you. Look up ticking and strobing. They're simple enough to learn.
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