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    Default Inner Game - Getting this **** handled

    So, some of you might know me from my indirect game threads from about 2 months ago. This post is as much about my journey thus far as it is a field report. Some motivation for my other hard case homies who had a messed up up bringing that warped them mentally, i feel your pain!! But anyway! Something changed about a month ago, when I moved down to Florida, and met my new wing, Closer. The first night with him was my first experience with Direct Game, not only direct game, but successful direct game. Closer beasts it that night, I think he had four number closes and 1 blow-out (that he forced lol.) I’m sure he’ll write that field report sooner or later, and he’ll correct me if I’m wrong. =P

    Anyway, I threw out everything I knew about indirect game and attempted to learn from what he was doing, I didn’t take to it very well, but if anything, I was a good wing, amoging friends of his number closes and pulling the obstacles away from their friends as well, etc. When I started approaching, he critiqued me, harshly, just like I needed. Things like slowing down, proper posture, and being interested.

    Now, you may notice that those 3 things are very important, and there are a lot of other things I have to concentrate to do as well, like proper eye contact and kino. So what do I do? I complete ignore the fact that I could practice all of these things every chance I get, and realize that the answer isn’t external. This is an internal problem, there is something wrong with this belief system of mine, and I will fix it.

    “Be your best self,” that’s what Neil Strauss taught us right? This is a great way to view life, and I will always strive to be my best self, but not for others. For the world, however, “I am enough.” Tyler Durden has quickly become my mentor of choice. His style of “game” is riddled with self-fulfilling prophecies, drama, and physicality. And so this is the style of “game” I have also chosen to play. It keeps me out of my head, present to the moment, and in a state of happiness (usually, lol.)

    Oh my god, finally, a field report. Before reading this, understand that I am still mashing all this inner game together, it’s still not completely internalized, and this is my first attempt at being physical right from the start, so understand, that it was pre-destined to fail. Lol. Now, on to the awesome story.

    Closer and I chillin at the bar talking shit, flirting with the passerby, waitresses and bartender (whom I think Closer is in love with o.O lol. Jk bro.) Then, I spot this blonde and brunette HB going up the stairs to the bathroom.

    Me: When they come back down, I’m opening that set.
    Closer: Do it.
    Me: Which one do you want?
    Closer: Ooooh, the blonde.
    Me: Perfect! I like the brunette… I think I want to open with the claw…

    *Figurative brakes squealing* Now, if you are new to game DON’T DO THE FUCKING CLAW. The claw is not just a “technique.” You have to live the claw! Ok, be congruent with it and whatnot. Do not walk around just clawing girls! I know it’s a weird name, but I’ll explain what it is in the story, but seriously, don’t claw if you don’t know how.

    Closer: Don’t do that man, just open like normal.
    Me: No man, just one time, just to see how the shit goes.
    Closer: Alright, fine.

    They are making their way down the stairs, brunette is in front, blonde is in the back, perfect positioning! They start walking right in front of us, the brunette is right next to me and THE CLAW!

    The claw: So I just grab her empty hand, lean back away from her (so I don’t look like I’m trying to assault her) and pull her toward me. She looks at me, wide-eyed, like “Omg, who is this guy?” And as her body presses up against mine I say, “You look… fucking… gorgeous.”

    Her: Oh my god! You’re such a liar!
    Me: Shut up, you’re beautiful.

    She tries to get away with a big smile on her face and still gripping my hand, so, I do what any sensible pimp would do and pull her hips with my other hand to get her back to me. Little did I know, that sensible part would wear off, AND FAST.

    Her: No, you’re a liar!
    Me: Nahh.
    Her: Wait, what’s your name?
    Me: *My name*, and yours?
    ******************** ****************
    The internal conflict has begun.
    My willpower: “I knew you had this homie! I fucking told you, brain. We got this shit, pimp.”
    Meanwhile, my brain is like, “Holy shit! Holy shit! Dude. Dude. No. This shouldn’t be happening.”
    My willpower: “YOU WANT PROOF? HERE IS THE PROOF!”
    My brain: “EVERYTHING I KNOW IS WRONG, NOOOOOO!”
    ******************** *********

    She pushes off of my chest, still smiling, and I just fucking let it go. I FUCKING LET IT GO! NOOOO! What the fuck are you doing? WHYYYYY!?

    She faces Closer, I get her attention again, she faces Closer, I get her attention again, I lose all attraction BECAUSE I STOPPED BEING FUCKING PHYSICAL. NOOOOOOOOOO!

    But, lesson learned! Physical game is now forever my lane, I’m going to hammer it out till the bitter end, and I got that reference experience now, so next time I’m out and my claw grows hungry, I’m going to fucking claw! IDGAF.

    Anyway, I know this sounds crazy, but I couldn’t sleep last night, because I kept fucking laughing about this. The brain likes proof, not promises, so there is the proof that I am enough, and that if I would had just made sure that nothing but me existed in her reality by not letting go, I would had got somewhere, but I know for next time, welcome to the new comfort zone brain, enjoy it, you won’t be here long. Till next time!
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Oh! I forgot to mention, when she looked at me after i used the claw, the look on her face and wide anime eyes showed me that, for those 5-10 seconds, i had just created the most attraction any girl has ever had when looking at me. That's why I am going to continue physical game. And that's also why i farking love this sh1t.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Inner Game - Getting this **** handled

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Oh! I forgot to mention, when she looked at me after i used the claw, the look on her face and wide anime eyes showed me that, for those 5-10 seconds, i had just created the most attraction any girl has ever had when looking at me. That's why I am going to continue physical game. And that's also why i farking love this sh1t.
    I believe Style refers to it as the puppy dog look. I know the feeling, its crazy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swish View Post
    I believe Style refers to it as the puppy dog look. I know the feeling, its crazy.
    Right. But it's not very often to spike that attraction within the first 5 seconds. Usually that look comes after DHVing and whatnot. But I don't need to dhv because through this type of game, i already have high value inherently.
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Inner Game - Getting this **** handled

    the claw only gets stronger with time
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Finally someone who gets it! Lol.

    1. The claw is a lifestyle.
    2. The claw always wins.
    3. The claw only grows stronger.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Inner Game - Getting this **** handled

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Closer: Don’t do that man, just open like normal.
    Me: No man, just one time, just to see how the sh1t goes.
    Closer: Alright, fine.

    LOL ^ To all of this xD


    ******************** ****************
    The internal conflict has begun.
    My willpower: “I knew you had this homie! I farking told you, brain. We got this sh1t, pimp.”
    Meanwhile, my brain is like, “Holy sh1t! Holy sh1t! Dude. Dude. No. This shouldn’t be happening.”
    My willpower: “YOU WANT PROOF? HERE IS THE PROOF!”
    My brain: “EVERYTHING I KNOW IS WRONG, NOOOOOO!”
    ******************** *********

    This ^ is like that internal conflict in that cartoon (like Fam Guy or South Park - I dunno - point is, these are the growing pains (internal) of coming to accept the frame of a high value male)

    P.s. I was gonna add a winky face or something but I thought it would come off as gay so I didn't. Thought you should know.


    She pushes off of my chest, still smiling, and I just farking let it go. I farkING LET IT GO! NOOOO! What the fark are you doing? WHYYYYY!?
    She faces Closer, I get her attention again, she faces Closer, I get her attention again, I lose all attraction BECAUSE I STOPPED BEING farkING PHYSICAL. NOOOOOOOOOO!
    Boom! We gotta get you past this sticking point - hooking! Easy fix, I had the same prob too. Basically let's go back to one other thing Mystery said in The Game "you need to be willing to lose the girl to get the girl." Which means, open her with the claw (or similar polarizing move) then push her away, then pull her back... but the important thing is after you alpha-male-open her, you push her away from you - if she at all ioi's, then pull her back - but you need that initial push - that initial willingness to discard her - in order to hook her/win her.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Finally someone who gets it! Lol.

    1. The claw is a lifestyle.
    2. The claw always wins.
    3. The claw only grows stronger.
    Yes!


    ..I had something else to add too.... but I don't really remember... might have been how I used some polar attraction tonight... maybe not... Hmm...
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    Lol. Yes! My internal conflict is that over Stan and Cartman! Cartman being my brain (always wrong) and stan is my willpower (usually right.) I do this to reinforce that my brain is farking dumb lol.

    I'm not going to call it a sticking point yet. I should had just sh1t tested when she asked my name.. it will come with experience =)

    Edit: Even without pushing her away, asking for my name was an ioi big enough for me to believe I could had just kept hammering it out. Not keeping it physical was the part that really hurt me.
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Oh snap! I just remembered at last part of it!...

    ...that's not enough build up...


    ...there we go....

    ....You've gotten to the point where you know (at some level) that youare enough - for wome to be attracted to. You are. Srsly.

    The next level after that is to realize that YOU are enough for YOU to live with! You need to accept yourself in order to reject the female (or at least be willing to reject her) and THUS build HUGE attraction because you know that YOU are enough for (not only her, because her standards are irrelevant) but that you are enough for YOU - and that is the tantimount of inner game - and you are knocking on the door!
    Last edited by Autismus; 01-01-2013 at 03:25 AM. Reason: "last" not "least"
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    Yea, i agree completely! There are 2 ways to adopt the abundance paradigm;

    1. Hammer into my head that being alone is good enough for me because external stimulus is a form of lower consciousness (hard mode)

    2. Take massive action and cultivate abundance through the law of averages (also hard when I don't get out often lol)

    But yea, i completely understand the steps.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.


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