New Years Eve Hottie.
Hey Major here.
Haven't posted in a while but have been working a lot on my Approach Anxiety, and NYE just summed up the progression I have made in my eyes.
Started in the afternoon by opening a HB9 who came and sat at the bus stop.
Cant remember a lot of the conversation, as we were together about 15-20 mins, so this is what I thought the main points were.
I opened with Adam Lyons.
Me: Hey, do you know if there is a coffee shop in watford? (where the buses are heading)
HB9: Yeah there is a starbucks in the shopping centre, and a costa coffee on the high street.
We Fluff for a bit about where im gonna go, and why starbucks is better than costa. Not a big coffee drinker so all I could think of was "the cup" lol.
We get on the bus, I sit down and she comes and sits next to me.
We talk for a while. Have been together about 10 mins now. I say im visiting my dad and that im thinking about moving to this area (I only live 30 mins away already). She starts telling me how its really nice, the people are friendly and I should move here (IOI?)
Me: So what you doing for New Year?
HB9: (hesitates) Im staying in with a couple friends... and my boyfriend. (got the feeling she didnt want to tell me)
Me: Staying in on NYE?! (or something similar)
HB9: I prefer to stay in with friends, dont really go out alot. (Where my dad lives is kind of countryside)
Me: (little neg) Ah it would have never worked between us then anyway.
HB9: (laughs) What are you like a party animal then?
Me: Not a party animal just like going out. This is my stop up here but im around with a few friends until the 7th. You seem really cool and laid back we should meet up for a drink.
HB9: Ok add me on fb my name is __________
THIS WAS BEFORE I HAD ANYTHING TO DRINK BUT STARTED DRINKING SOON AFTER, AND FOR THE LIFE OF ME I CANT REMEMBER HER NAME!!!! I THINK RACHEL BUT THAT COULD STILL BE A GUESS GRAAAR!!!!
So, yeah that kind of set the precedent for the day, I got a couple numbers and definitely kissed one girl at midnight just cant remember if she is hot or not :P
Have been called arrogant a few times recently, mainly because I refuse to buy drinks for girls, especially when they ask for it. You are the prize, I just need to get the balance right which will hopefully come with practice.
Starting the new year the way I mean to continue, and this is basically just to let any AFC know that if I can get over approach anxiety, so can anyone because I was terrible.
Constantly giving myself excuses not to talk to girls as I walk past "ill get the next one", but no more.
We survived 2012, so lets make 2013 the one that changes us for the better, I know I will be.
Peace and Love guys.
Last edited by Major; 01-02-2013 at 07:20 AM.
Reason: Precedent not President, oops!
“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”