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    Default No IOIs but I still got her

    Started college back in September, which is around the time I started reading PUA stuff. I was just getting over a girl I really fell for, it took me about a year (lame I know) I was a oneitis, some-what needy kinda guy who didn't always know what to talk to woman about, but that changed!...Well, most of it has (Not perfect just yet!)

    Instead of sticking and concentrating on one girl or group of people like I always did (needy), I decided to follow advice and mix with groups and talk to different girls who came my way. Got ioi's from about 4 girls so far, 3 I haven't followed through with yet and 1 which hasn't really gone to plan as she's seeing a college mate, but still a
    female friend for me (+1 HB9 friend for Atom).

    Since starting college, I've had ups and downs, a good part to do with inner game, I think and care too much. Get over yourself, Atom! But, since starting college, I do have something to show for it...

    The interesting thing is that I got with a girl who wasn't really showing IOIs at all! She was friendly but I didn't actually think she was attracted to me. I played my PUA cards and techniques, a few kind negs here and there, gave her a nickname, etc, still didn't really get any IOIs from her. Then I didn't see her for a week and one day I was bored out of my mind having finished all my work and had a few hours to kill. I bumped into her I asked her somewhere a little quiet, the pool games room. I wasn't really planning on doing anything, I was just bored out of my mind and wanted to hang out. I decided to see where it goes and got us talking and asking each other sex questions. It was fun talking to her about this stuff and I learnt a lot about her. Turns out she's never had sex. She's done everything but. I found this quite surprising. She was smiling and eyeing me and so was I. After a while, we kissed. And even though she said it would be just that one time, we've met, hanged out and have had make out sessions about 3 or 4 times after that and I'm meeting her again on Saturday. She can't resist We haven't discussed relationship or anything, so its pretty much open.

    Yay for Atom!

    Things are great. Little things to work on here and there, but good stuff overall.

    Also, her lipstick shade is really starting to suit me

    "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." - Oscar Wilde

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    Default Re: No IOIs but I still got her

    Nice job! Way to power through! Keep it up!!
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