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Thread: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

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    Default Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    So I was sarging tonight with some buddies, the night was pretty awesome.

    We went to 3 different spots, first one was dead, second one, I got a number from the coatcheck girl and third one is what brought me down.

    So, I spot this HB9 on the dancefloor, chilling and obviously waiting for her friends so I open her direct. After some light convo, we head to the bar to get some drinks. I pull out Kino's 5 kiss close and it worked like a charm. We spend the following hour making out and dancing and talking about our life goals, with me pulling away first everytime and her reinitiating the kiss.

    Eventually she gets really excited and we decide to head back to her place. But she has to head to the bathroom first.

    For some dumb reason, I decide to see if I can get a kiss close while she's in the bathroom, so I decide to sarge this cute hipster black chick, HB7 (I don't even like black girls )

    Anyways, direct opener instantly followed by Kinos 5 kiss routine and I get my fastest make out ever. Not fast enough though since the first girl comes out of the bathroom and sees me.

    No words, she just storms out crying. I try to catch up with her but by the time I get outside of the bar, she's already in a cab leaving.

    I guess kissing really is cheating

    I'm generally a fairly emotionally numb guy but this really makes me feel terrible, I don't know why the fuck I even thought about trying something like that.

    Btw, Kino's kiss routine is absolutely godlike

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    Is it bad I smiled at this? Lol. Anyway, at least you know what you shouldn't do next time! You know that's not really a feeling you'd like to have again, so I'm sure you won't do it again.

    The following is a scenario of her thoughts in the bathroom:

    "Oh my god, this guy is so awesome, I can't wait till I get back out there. I hope he feels the same way..."

    Comes out from the bathroom:

    "Noooooooooooooo !"


    For the record, i don't encourage hurting people. I just love the drama.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    Haha I smiled at this too, and then I was like "dumbass" . It's not really breaking the PUA rules of no cheating and no lying because you weren't together yet, but it was a really stupid move and this result was bound to happen.

    Nice job on getting such quick k-closes, though.

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    Hey you live and you learn.. It's sad that she got hurt but if you have her number She just won't be able to resist you, She'll be pissed though but she leaving you for 2 mins and then coming back to see you'e the most wanted thing on the planet she'll want it.

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    tough... remember, learning PU is abt elevating urself above the avg man. otherwise, u descend into a man who does it for kicks and become a zombie to it. (ref. The Game"

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    any link to Kino's kiss close would be much appreciated
    Make the impossible possible!

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    Rules are for the weak. You should only feel bad because you got caught. Its not possible to cheat on a girl just met and kiss closed at some venue. However you did ruin your chances at a one night bang. Which is to me one of the joys of being a PUA. This is a dark art and you can use it how you please. Sometimes people will get hurt in the process. As PUA's we sarge girls all the time that have boyfriends/husbands shyt even girlfriends.We hook up with them and its rewarding. Thus we make them cheat. If you dont feel anyway about that, why would you lose any sleep over some girl you kissed closed who probably has a boyfriend anyway.
    This is the deviant method.
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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    Yeah, I really dropped the ball on that one. When I say the #1 PUA rule, I mean the one of "Always leave a girl better off than you found her"

    Like I said, I'm pretty emotionally detached due to sh1t I've lived through and seen in Africa, but seeing this girl walk out the bathroom, see me and just keep walking, tears starting to well up in her eyes, it really affected me. I still feel a pang of guilt just thinking about it. That was definitely a lame move, no amount of rationalization will change that


    Quote Originally Posted by DeviantMethod View Post
    Rules are for the weak. You should only feel bad because you got caught. Its not possible to cheat on a girl just met and kiss closed at some venue. However you did ruin your chances at a one night bang. Which is to me one of the joys of being a PUA. This is a dark art and you can use it how you please. Sometimes people will get hurt in the process. As PUA's we sarge girls all the time that have boyfriends/husbands shyt even girlfriends.We hook up with them and its rewarding. Thus we make them cheat. If you dont feel anyway about that, why would you lose any sleep over some girl you kissed closed who probably has a boyfriend anyway.
    This is the deviant method.
    AbidesByNoRules..
    I can't agree with this. Being a PUA doesn't mean you're devoid of morals or conscience. It's only a dark art if you make it so. There's nothing in this world that's inherently good or bad. It all depends on how YOU as an individual decide to use it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Xmrider View Post
    any link to Kino's kiss close would be much appreciated
    Here you go

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    sounds like you missed out on the f-close.. bummer!

    Good job thou

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    Default Re: Broke #1 PUA rule... feeling bad about it

    The only rule...... THERE ARE NO RULES
    Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.

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