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    Default Taken aback by her hot looks

    Okay so today I went to a store that my friend works at. The girl who works at the cashier was about 20 yrs old and at least HB8 Blonde and fit. She was being friendly and everything and I was able to keep talking to her. However, whenever it came to staring at her directly in the eyes, I found myself looking away like a little bitch (it saddens me to say this). I hated myself after I left for not even trying to ask for a name or a farking number.

    So any one have any tips for maintaining good body language and confident nature when talking to women that are so hot its actually intimidating?
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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    How far apart from her when you were talking to her. For me I find it really hard to keep or initiate eye contact if I'm more than five feet away.

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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    Well she was over the counter so there was a barrier between us. Yeah i found it tough because I wasnt able to get myself in a comfortable position to escalate the convo
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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    I also have a serious problem with eye contact with HB's be it there big breasts or my lack of confidence to look them in the eye its a problem.

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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    SO now I guess I'm getting a little bit better with dealing with super hot women, mostly because I cease to care LOL. I now just start conversations with them just to chat and this kind of relieves the pressure. I know that she is just a hot chick and even if she walks away, I got some practice talking to her!

    I guess just talking to her like shes a normal person (even if she intimidatingly hot) really is the best way to go
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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    dang bro i feel you
    ive been like this my whole life too.

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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    Yeah its almost as if we've all been conditioned to be affected by their amazing looks. I blame commercials and advertising!

    The only solution I've found so far is to just push through and not give a frak. Seems to be getting me better results!
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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    Don't beat yourself up too much, there's lots of guys who would be the same as you. But if you can get over the intimidation factor and hold eye contact, you will get great results. Eye contact is a key point in attraction. And yep, personally I've found that just thinking about her like a normal person and not a HB, and generally just not giving a fcuk helps a lot.

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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    One of the easiest ways to fix your body language is to fix your belief system. You believe in some way or another that she is better than you. Don't look to micro manage your body language, only look to calibrate it. If you're finding yourself sending really poor body language, i.e. acting nervous/beta, it's because you have the belief that you should be nervous/beta. Remember that you're enough for any girl and you would be a prize for her, not vice versa.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Taken aback by her hot looks

    The Elitist is bang on; this is an inner game issue.

    You need to think of yourself as the prize and that she sure is lucky to have spent some time talking to you...

    that should be your attitude. Do this first and literally everything else will come more naturally.


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