Re: Taken aback by her hot looks
One of the easiest ways to fix your body language is to fix your belief system. You believe in some way or another that she is better than you. Don't look to micro manage your body language, only look to calibrate it. If you're finding yourself sending really poor body language, i.e. acting nervous/beta, it's because you have the belief that you should be nervous/beta. Remember that you're enough for any girl and you would be a prize for her, not vice versa.
Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.
If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.