What exactly did I do wrong...
So, I didn't plan on heading out, was just having a quiet drink with some friends at a bar across the street from my house.
they encouraged me to come out, so walk into this club, and head straight to the VIP area. The bottles arrive. We sit and start chatting and doing our own thing. When dun dun dun... I see this chick. To set the frame. I live on a small island where there are literally a handful of HB10s, and mostly 3-4s around... most people know me here, but this chick was from out of town, but was born on this island, so had come back to visit family/friends...
She was at the next table, standing up looking over the crowd of people at the club.
I walked up beside her, stood a little in front of her and turned back and said:
Me:That's a very beautiful necklace
HB7: thank you!!
Me: I was thinking twice about telling you, but couldn't stop looking at it.
Me:Where did you get it? Obviously not from here (tropical island)
HB: no I got it from Zara in London
me: oh I thought it was vintage Cartier or something it is still very nice... So do you live in London?
HB: yeah, but thinking of moving back.
Me: you really should, now is the time etc. the opportunities are super good etc. what do you do in London.
HB: I work in online marketing
Me: oh so you do that from anywhere really, anyway, I am gonna get back to my friends.
HB: so, what do you do?
Me: I am a struggling entrepreneur I guess.. (Big smile) if you aren't struggling you aren't really an entrepreneur...
Me: gotta go
About an hour later, I asked one of the girls in my group to tap her on the shoulder, and I asked her to come over. She came and stood next to me, I introduced her to my friend who were around. And she said very cool, networking, I like it...
There was some guy who had a hawk eye on her, so i said:
Me: so how long have you been with him?
HB: oh that's not my Bf, I don't have one.
Me: so then you must have very high standards...
HB: that's not true, I just want a good guy.
Me: what does that even mean? What is your definition of a good guy?
Hb: you know a nice guy to talk to, someone interesting. Good sense of humor and doesn't cheat!!
Me: so your standards are high...
You haven't found him yet have you?you are pretty enough to get any guy you want, but none of the guys so far tick the boxes...
Me: so tell me, how do you even know when you like a guy? How do you know when you see a guy... What it is inside you that says: i really like this guy?
Hb: I just know, obviously I wouldn't know i liked him immediately, i would want to get to know him and spend time with him outside of a club and really have a chance to speak with him... Listen, I gotta check my phone. I will be back in 2 secs
Me: take your time, i will give you 4 big smile!
Girl disappears for over an hour.
Reappears and is rather distant, disinterested.
Few mins later.
Guy walks in, her face lights up. They hug/kiss and he is holding her...
I feel the night was wasted and leave... Go off to talk to a bunch of other girls... No major break through, all 4's/5's and went home rather disheartened...