I'm a new member here and this will be my first post, I've number closed this girl that goes to a salsa place i frequently go, she was there today.
I decided to apply what I've been reading here (Kino, ioi's and a little on keeping the conversation going, also a little of openers and closers) and this is how it went.
Before it starts i have to say I'm a good salsa dancer, not amazing but good enough to make girls want to dance with me, i have below average look, i'm not that tall and i suck at kiss and f-closing (the one i've gotten are mainly b/c the girl almost threw themselves at me).
- I approach the girl (I've danced with her before and she is nice, if i had to rate her probably an 8) and ask her for a dance, she agrees, i do nothing and this goes for around 1 hour, i keep dancing with other girls, after the time passes i feel it's time to make my moves.
- I dance with her a salsa song, and stay with her with the excuse to practice some moves, (I actually show her the moves and tell her where she is doing them wrong and why).
-We start dancing bachata (damn sexy music, and amazing for kino) i start being a little touchy, she gets away a little but she comes back, after a few songs i increase the touching and continue touching her as we talk when we are not dancing.
-Then i decide i will try to go for it in a song, i read somewhere that if you pull the girl's hair they go crazy (but this point i already had around 2 or 3 IOI, didn't count) so i pull her hair and she makes a face like WTH! then i back out a little b/c i felt she didn't like it; she moves really really close... i tell her that her hair smells really nice, she grabs me tighter. I repeat the hair pull and she comes even closer.
-The song ends and i'm touching her a lot, and she is too; we sit in a place a little more private, the club will play 2 more songs and that's it, then it will close.
-I know i have to go for it, I memorized the kino's 5 kisses kiss closing technique but i dunno... i'm afraid or something...
-In the end i don't do anything and feel like a wuss... i invited her to go dance again on tuesday and she said she works but she will go.
I'm pretty much asking for advice, opinions; what to do, what should i have done and what should i work on, i'm a total noob and even if i feel ballsy i'm super nervous a lot of the times, especially when kiss closing and f closing, a lot of girls i think are good to go have given me the cold shoulder; and i really like this girl.